"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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rushing dude 123

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depends how hard u make it for urself man, last time i did this i walked to work and did 1 hour of eye contact and 30 hello's, i walked back from work i did the other hour of contact and 20 hello's.

50 hello's can be done in 2 minutes, if u get on a bus lol. eye contact u can do that just has u walk a-b and same goes for hello's.

I remember my first bootcamp though, those hello's were scary haha. I was thinking so i just say hello and walk past them and make a total idiot out of myself GREAT, but i gathered confidence to do it and not care what other people thought and funny enough it came out quite normal and the majority of people said hello back.

btw solomon other than this week the others can be done at work pretty much if you deal with public, but if ur a lawyer or something might not b good idea to ask out the judge during the trial lol.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Daddy The Pimp

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I don't know man , after being in game for about a year and a half and all this intensive training with some really embarrassing missions , these missions sound too easy . Maybe ill join on week 5 or 6. No way im going out with the goal of saying HI to 50 strangers. But when it comes to go out and open with apocalypse and " WANNA FVCK ?" , im down.

Peace
 

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daddy the pimp i understand, but like i said it's hard as u make it. why don't u just put ur task as say hi to 50 women or men and ...continue the conversation, that is what i am going to try and do. So make ur goal open 50 sets in one week, i am sure ur down with that and if ur feeling extra frisky make sure ur eye contact is on only shadey psychotic weirdos in the alley haha.
 

rushing dude 123

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I am going to post the first week thread now, because i think this will be all the men more or less, i am still accepting newcomers though. U guys can get all ready for the the 15th now, 3 more days. I want you to think of what you want, who u r right now and start read motivating articles. Also It takes a stronger man to get out there before the camp starts.
 

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sorry to say fellow dj's but I'm running out of the race
I just don't have the time to do this, I work tons of hours, on top of that two weeks from now, I got family flying over from over seas so I won't have any time then at all. However i will do my own version of a bootcamp loosely and what not, sorry guys

good luck!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'll sign up. Hopefully i can make it through a few weeks, but being in high school there are weeks where i don't have the time to make an "outing."

Anyone else in high school doing this?
 

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Fair enough solo it would of been good to have u in it though. Saturos i have added u on the week one bootcamp thread.

Bootcamp entrys have technically closed now, buttt... i am willing to accept newcomers, on one condition. I answer to action, not words. If u ask me if u can join and u will do the task, i will have to say no. All those djs who speack with action and tell me they have finished week ones tasks, by 22nd may, i will know u mean business and i will most definetly put u into week 2.

So guys prove your worth if u still want to take this on.
 

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ok i posted this in the week 1 thread but i want to post it here too....


(with embarrasment) i have been on vacation the past two weeks so i didnt get a chance to sign up but i have been wanting to do a bootcamp forever now it seems. let me in this one i wont let you down.

i have done a lot of the reading already and have read common attraction books like styles and mysterys stuff so i am not a total newbie.

give me a chance man!

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live on!!!
 

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oh and i will def complete the weeks tasks and be done by 22nd!
 
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