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BootCamp - Clan of the Phoenix

Blackdragon5095

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To Amoka:

I like how are talking to girls but however you are really messing up man.

1. Never ask try to ask a girl if she wants to go out sometime. It's like asking her if she likes you. Gets ya rejected ( Do that stuff over the phone )

2. Ask for phone numbers and don't tell them you are gonna call.
Let her worry if you are gonna call or not. NEVER !!!! GIVE YOUR PHONE NUMBER TO A GIRL !!! Ketp the ball in your court bro.

3. I like your skill in conversation. Very good :D

4. Work on kino and pay attention to body language. Remember 75% of communcation is in body language. So be aware of it.

5. Make sure you make the apporach fun and smile. Making her have a good time shows that you are a fun guy. And really like talking to you. :cool:

6. If any girl reacts rudely to you then walk away. Rude = Weakness. :nono:


Overall:
Ketp the good work bro. :rockon:
 

amoka

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HB7 on her way to call

Thanks BlackDragon. Next time, I'll just ask for the number.

Alright folks, I just closed another number. I was running late to go meet my advicer to go play volleyball at my school. As I was running towards my advicer's office, I spotted an HB7 walking at a rapid paste. At about five feet between us, I shouted "hey", then she turned:
Amoka:"You must be late going to class"
HB7: " Yeah, I have a class in five minutes"
Amoka: " Come play volleyball with me"
HB7: " I'm sorry but I have a class"
Amoka: "Alright. Do you play volleyball?"
HB7:" No"
Amoka:"No? What sport do you like and play?"
HB7: "I play basketball"
Amoka:" Do you play for the school? Maybe you can teach me how to play sometimes"
HB7: " No I don't play for the school" I don't recall how she responded to her teaching me to play. But anyway that was not of great important so here we go....
Amoka:" So what class do you have now?"
HB7:"Biology"
Amoka:" Let me guess. You must be a Biology major. How much more time do you have to complet?"--It's all most 5 minutes now but this baby showed no sign of resigning from the conversation. I tried not to keep it too long since I'm also late to meet my adviser.
HB7:"Yeah, I'm doing pre-med"
Amoka: " So what is your name?"
HB7:"Shantoya"
Amoka:" Alright shantoya, why don't you give me your number and I'll give you a call sometimes to go have great time"
Shantoya:" How about I get your number?"--she began pulling her cell phone out of her pocket ready to get my number. But I insist on getting hers.
Amoka:"Give me yours and I'll call you"
Shantoya:"XXX-XXX-XXXX"
Amoka: " Great. Talk to you later".
 

Blackdragon5095

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amoka said:
Shantoya:" How about I get your number?"--she began pulling her cell phone out of her pocket ready to get my number. But I insist on getting hers.
Amoka:"Give me yours and I'll call you"
Shantoya:"XXX-XXX-XXXX"
Amoka: " Great. Talk to you later".
Translation
Shantoya: I wanna see if your another idoit. Most fall of this trick.
Amoka: Sorry babygirl but I'm no afc, so give me your number.


Again GREAT JOB Amoka :up:
That was a test and you passed good work.
 

The Phoenix

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Yo!
Nice Nice Nice!!

I was feelign a bit down and then I see some of you are doing great and I feel better already.

Went to lunch with my coworkers from the office, a table of about 18 people, and then comes this waitress and she was a HB8 , damn. I so much wanted to get her # but there was no way to free myself from public escrutiny. She was moving around a lot too. That sucked, another chance gone by.

Ok now here comes the next part. It is Thurday and we are moving on with this BootCamp.

For those of you who have done what you were supposed to by now you may have a few #s on your wallet.
I just realized today that I don't do very well with rejections over the phone, hate to leave msgs and I never call anyone, i am always the one being called. With my buddies that ok because they know me and I am a personable dude, but now I have to change this paradigm.

I need to inform myself on the best On-the-phone Date-setting techniques.
Can anyone post links on information on how to make the first phone approach?? I am a novice at this, and some of the rest of us may be too. Post your links here so we can all have them for posterity. Any past experiences would be good to.

For those who do not have a DJ Journal yet, I encourage you to start your own DJ Journal thread, that way we can get more details about your current status, and use the main bootcamp thread for coordination and reference purposes.

Keep up the good work and keep those post coming.

Cheers,
 

ProDJ26

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count me in phoenix, i gotta get rid of this oneitis !! she been in my head for weeks now!
 
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amoka said:
Amoka: "Hey Katie, how would you like to go out sometimes?"
Katie: " I have a boyfriend". Sh!t. I expected it. I just played it kull though. At any other setting, I could bang this HB for good. I did not want to disturb others in ther library so i was just in a harry and rashed things.
Amoka: " Alright. Perhaps, I'll see you around here sometimes and we can continue our conversation"
Katie: " Alright. See you later"

Folks, I missed on the #close but it was all a learning experience.
you could've said, "Hey, I'm not jealous. Maybe he can drive for us."
or maybe, "I see. So he can't speak english?"

Lol. :p
 

CloneWolf

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when's the next boot camp? Beta with the simmering magma inside to be the ALPHA. I'm 40 but young enough to whoop some ass. I walk 2 miles a day, work with weights and eat carefully.

I want to score so bad it hurts.
 

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Approach journal

For those interested in reading and furthering up their knowledge with HBs, I have an approach journal posted on AJA.
 

amoka

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labour-day

Alright folks, I know you all had wonderful time with chicks this labour-day weekend and I know you're all willing to share them. Feel free to do so...
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

The Phoenix

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Yo!!
It has been a while since my last post, and here are some of my reports.

I has a few numbers to call, so I called my first and set up a date. She did not answer but got back to me on Friday. We had dinner on Friday, hooked up on Frid, Sat, Sun, Mon and Tues, and I think (not quite sure yet..) that I am dating her.

She is a proffessional Ballet dancer, really hot and crazy for me. We are having a great time, but I am affraid that if I don't start SARGING again or call the other # closes I will be setting my self up for another One-itis. Her IL on me is really high but it could start dropping at any time. I like her so I am going to have to start Sarging againg for the sake of this so I don't turn into an AFC.

Will add more details in my Journal, Also I had a few additional approaches and one more close over the weekend.
Will update records soon.

How is everyone else doing??

Cheers,
 

The Phoenix

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Yo!
Sorry guys if I have not been to active this past few days but I am back.
Guys we have to be money on this boot camp. We are under the scrutiny of the best and we don't wan to disapoint them or us with half ass efforts.
This week starts the really fun part of our bootcamp and that is concentrating on three things:

1) we want to close #
2) we want to go on that 1st date
3) we want to try to kiss close the date, even if we crash and burn

Now 2 and 3 are the real fun, some of you will kiss close like crazy and start getting it on, some may take a little while, but rememmber, it only takes one full success to close the glory line!! So it is just a matter of playing the numbers.

Don't forget to update your journals with all the results of your adventures. A lessons learned section after the most important closes may be really beneficial for all of us. Also start critiquing each others journals, compare scituations and results and bring up subjects of discussion to this board, I think we are ready to start discussing on approaches and close techniques out of our own experiences.

I look forwards to reading your journals!!

Sarge on my brothers!!
 

Impact

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The Phoenix said:
Yo!!
It has been a while since my last post, and here are some of my reports.

She is a proffessional Ballet dancer, really hot and crazy for me.
They say dancers are great lovers, more to that a ballet dancer, gratitude and passion are their thing, good luck and keep us posted!!!
 

arglebargle

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Damn! I'd really like to be a part of this but I am just beginning the journey now. Are there any other bootcamps? Could someone point me in the right direction?
:D
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

amoka

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arglebargle said:
Damn! I'd really like to be a part of this but I am just beginning the journey now. Are there any other bootcamps? Could someone point me in the right direction?
:D
Welcome! There are several bootcamps. I suggest you creat one of your own as a starter. In such case, you can still continue even if otheres bailed out...
good luck.
 

The Phoenix

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Yo!!
Vail out?! Never.

I have neglected you guys sorry, after I started the bootcamp it went soo we'll that I met this really cute dancer and now I am dating her, I tried sarging but the problem is after I get the other girl's numbers I feel like a scumbag if I call them to set up a meeting, after all, I was conditioned by the camp to avoid being LJBF-ed so I know, if I meet them I'l make s#it happen.
I got a couple of #s thes past week, but these where girls that came up to our friends group during band auditions and stuff, there is a cute 20 yrld that took my # and gave me hers, it has been over a week, she likes me, that is why I can't call her and meet her.

I am stuck in a weird situation, I'll have to figure out a way to continue my DJing training without compromissing my integrity or becoming a PUA scumbag.

I'll still coordinate all the activities here, will make a row call soon.

I am yet to see the journals of a lot of people, exept nonchalant and a few others that are making great progress.

Hope to hear from everyone soon,
 

amoka

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Folks, amoka is back....
Gone due to exams but now back to the DJing system. Will from now on till school resumes continuous his duties as DJ...
 

The Phoenix

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Hello fellows it is Thursday and WHERE THE HELL are your field reports???

Come on brothers, we said no quitting,
-Amoca??
-BlackDragon9550??
-2c2bt??
-ApC23??
-Impact??

Anyone??

I started the bootcamp in hopes that it would help me improve my Dj skills and help me find out the right girl out there by playing the numbers, and I am telling you guys it works!!! Less than a month later I am dating this awesome girl who adores me, I want the same 4 u all. If she goes I will be back in the field sarging but for now I can't do that, but I can still keep this bootcamp alive and learn from all of you guys.

So, I haven't seen any of your Dj journals out there either, may be you guys found a girl and feel satisfied now, if so, drop a few lines and let me know.

Hope my new LTR doesn't turn me into an AFC. If you all got into a LTR we can transform this bootcamp into one that focuses in inner game training rather than sarging.

Let me know what u guys think.

Does anyone know how is nonchalant doing??, he was doing really well
Cheers,
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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