"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BootCamp Change your life or Not!!!!!

StoneCold

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Hey Don Juans

Theres loads of talk about this bootcamp thing for ages
what i wanna know is that has any good come out of doing the bootcamp
im not talking about sucess but has it changed anyones life and made them a more better DJ

For me personally doing the bootcamp was strange

for example the 50 Hi,s thing in a week
i set myself a t6arget of 10 a day but then u dont actually think about sedcuing women all you are trying to do is reach your target nothing gained nothing lost

same for the convo thing

i went right upto week 5 then went hoilday couldnt continue still i feel like im the same guy

i mean when you dont have targets like 50 his or 10 convos but just to meet everywoman you can its easyier on the mind and you dont run around like a crazy goat loooking to get those last couple of convos and hi,s

any objections? has it really changed you?

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WestCoast1492

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I'm one of the drop outs.. I couldn't complete the hi's.. Don't even know if i did 1 legitimate one to a non-acquantince type.
 

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Originally posted by WestCoast1492
I'm one of the drop outs.. I couldn't complete the hi's.. Don't even know if i did 1 legitimate one to a non-acquantince type.
lol, me too, i passed week 1 tho but on week 2 always gettin revelations. why???????
 

Jon341427

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what you guys have to do is talk to yourself, **** really works. when you are all alone hype yourself up and convince yourself how you need to start approaching girls, and how its really not a big deal cause it really isnt. talking to yourself works, it locks things in subconscienly (sp).


today i was at the mall, and saw 3 good looking girls who had just bought snacks and sat down to eat them. so i said f it. i went up to them and said hello, im waiting for a friend you girls mind if i sit down? well i sat down and the WHOLE THING WENT ABSOLUTELY TERRIBLE! the girls were SOOO standoffish it was rediculous. i couldnt get anything out of them. but you know what?? who gives a ****. i thought it was pretty damn funny. even when the conversation died i said **** them, im going to stay here the whole time untill they get up and leave me (just to get them back for being so damn standoffish). they would barely make eye contact with me. so i just sat there with a HUGE smile on my face (i thought it was funny) looking at them one by one (but not being weird about it) until they eventually started talking to eachother again, and soon after they were finished eating and left. i had a good time.

the point of this story is i failed miserably and im still here to post about it (yep you dont die if you fail an approach). and you know what, my sack is still down below me and im going to prove it to myself very shortly when i jerk off in a few minutes (too much info??). approach random girls, its fun. and be able to laugh at yourself, it works wonders. and lastly talk to yourself to get your mindset right.
 
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