"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bootcamp Aug 3rd Pls join

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I will be finally taking action to better myself. Especially now that school is starting in the next month. It will be my senior year and I'd like it to be as great as I can make it. As for anyone else who would like to join in as well, then please do so. If you join in on this bootcamp then say so and I'll keep track of who is in. I will be starting a new thread Monday keeping my progress as well as others'.

Read it, dont read it, whatever. Im doing this to finally shake off my shyness and up my confidence. Besides...Im too good looking to not be macking b!tches left n right! Lol

So come on guys join in!!
I doubt anyone will do it but its whatever =/
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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im in. haha you doubted any1 would join and its only been 5 minutes. quick question thou, are you going to go the full nine yards with posting objectives/reading material every week like most people who run b/c's or just do it casually?
 

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Umm lol Idk. Explain please? So I need to post each week's objectives/articles/etc? should be easy. If all goes wrong you're co-captain! lol so help me out if I screw up.

Okay I'll post the objectives or w/e tomorrow afternoon.

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Chrom3y
Thyme

Come on more people!! I know theres guys out there who lack confidence and skillz! Step up and take charge!
 

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ok man ive been in a b/c before so i will help you out. but here check this out. this is wat the good b/c's look like (atleast it was smooth for me):

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=160506

oh and typically the b/c week starts on thursday i think (maybe its friday) so you can be pumped and go out to get it started right away on the weekend.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oh and i think we should do our journal entry/post or wahtever theyre called in the weeks thread along with your journal (if you even have one), not just in a journal
 
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