"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bootcamp Anyone?

H.T Baldwin

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Boot camp!

I'm keen to start this Thursday . Just brushing up on the reading at the moment. Did you guys manage to start on Monday?? Shocker, bruce, soontobesuave? Good luck to everyone, I may be a couple of days behind, but I'm going to jump in with you all.

Anyone who cares to join me for a Thursday (19th) start, let me know. Is this the page to post results?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I will start a new thread with all the reading in and to post our progress in. Okay ?
 

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Re: Boot camp!

Originally posted by H.T Baldwin
I'm keen to start this Thursday . Just brushing up on the reading at the moment. Did you guys manage to start on Monday?? Shocker, bruce, soontobesuave? Good luck to everyone, I may be a couple of days behind, but I'm going to jump in with you all.

Anyone who cares to join me for a Thursday (19th) start, let me know. Is this the page to post results?

hey, feel free to join any time. But the goals are 50 hello's and eye contact. Im sure you can do that while reading it. Pm me if you need more info.

Shocker
 

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I will try it. This means I have to force myself to get out more. I am working on my thesis which means I'm in my room a lot. But I will get out there.
 

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Originally posted by Birdwatcher
I will try it. This means I have to force myself to get out more. I am working on my thesis which means I'm in my room a lot. But I will get out there.
Me too. I'm having my final project design this semester. So I am in the lab or in the workshop most of the time. Still, I'll do this but maybe at a slower pace than most.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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