“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Boot Camp Week 5

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Finally.......

Setting Up Initial Date / What To Do On First Date

Fellow Boot Campers,
Guys, we've come a long way. In the beginning we worked on initiating and maintaining eye contact,
greeting strangers, and starting up conversations with hot girls. Then we put our ego and fear on the
line, and went for 10 rejections! Now it's time to go to the next step...
Purpose of this lesson: During this fifth week in the DJ Boot Camp, our goal is to work on our abilities
to close the girls on the phone, and set up a first date, as well as to gain knowledge on what to do and
what not to do during first dates.


Okay fellow recruits, after over a month at this Boot Camp, now we get to start enjoying the fruits of
our labour and start dating chicks!
For this week's lesson, we are to do each of the following exercises:

Exercise 1
Call up the girls whom we have acquired their phone numbers during lesson four and set-up a nonweekend
first date. This could be to a coffee shop, or an action date, but definitely not the traditional
movie-and-dinner. Take a look at the Reading Material above for ideas.

Exercise 2
Use the skills we have learned up to this point, and those contained within the Reading Material above,
to increase the girl's interest level.

Exercise 3
Go back into the field and get more phone numbers if we have not yet acquired ten phone numbers.

Special exercise notes
This lesson does not have to be completed by this time next week. You will have fourteen days (two
weeks) to complete it (MotU suggested one and a half weeks, but that would cause an imbalance with
the day names – Nick). So with two weeks, you have just the right amount of time to go get some
numbers if you don't have enough (or any), wait 4-7 days to call and set up the date, and to finally go
out on some dates.
Upon completion of, or throughout, this exercise, come back and report on one or more of your dates
and first phone call conversations – use the response thread.
All right guys, we're half way through with the Boot Camp. You guys who have stuck to it this past
month are doing fantastic. Now we get to start enjoy what we've worked hard to establish.
So go out there, and have a blast!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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Actually I already have something to post on week 5 that I did during week 4.
I went on a date with the girl I got the email from. Yesterday we went for a walk, then had a coffee (she paid for herself, sweeeet:up: ). The convo was ok, I could see her high IL from the beginning, and it didnt drop. I set a second date for today (go to a free salsa dancing course in a club) but she didnt confirm.
Later this evening I got an email from her saying that she hopes I didnt wait for her (I did) and if I did she's so sorry. She doesnt have the possibility to check on her email anytime and would like to have my # so that this doesnt happen again, hopes to see me next week.
I cant blame her for not coming, cause she didnt say she would come. I think she is interested and I will probably go out with her next week.

Now its time to work on my number-closes. I still have only 6 numbers + 2 emails (2 are no prospects any more, one is a prospect for autumn) so I'll have to get another 7 numbers this week.:eek:
 

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Date 2 with HB from Poland.
Body: 10
Face: 8
Personality: 8
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I set the date on friday in an email. She agreed to come (wrote me her number this time without me asking for it). I was like 15 minutes late and when I come I see this hottie standing there and waiting for me (wouldnt go to the club alone, chose to wait for me). Who could have thought that the time would come when souch girls would be waiting for ME?
We went to the club, it was almost empty but we had a nice convo and I bought her a drink (made it up to her for being late TWICE, so its ok). In about another I took her to another club, where the people were dancing, the right atmosphere. She asked me if I want something to drink (She really intended to buy me a drink, I said no) and she bought herself a beer. We were dancing next to each other facing the croud. After like 30 min a guy (who was giving strong EC to her and checking on me if I'm her boyfriend or not) comes up to her and TELLS her to step down and dance with him. At first she didnt want to, then he said the same thing with other words (not asking, but telling her) two more times and she DID it. She started dancing with him in front of me. I couldnt believe my eyes and felt like a WBAFC!!!! It was my fück up that I didnt dance with her, but next to her. The other guy saw that I aint doing anything and used that. After like one minute she came back to me cause he was getting all touchy-feely. Anyway this guy was good!
It was hard, but I managed not to show my emotions and laughed like it was funny. Damn that was hard.
Later we went to some other clubs (venue change to let the familiarity feeling set in) but didnt stay long. Then as we sat on a bench in the park, after she said she's a bit cold (She was not ready for kiss close, for sure) I suggested we could go to my place, have a drink or something (cause she doesnt live in Vienna and missed her last train, so she had to wait like till 5 in the morning. She told me before we went out yesterday about that, and I told her I wouldnt leave her alone)
She was like: "I'm NOT coming with you" then continued "I dont know what kind of person you are, no, you can go home if you want, I'm not coming"
I knew that the worst move would be to get angry or upset :cry: , so I tried and said with a smile: "Does that mean you think I'm a maniac or smth?" Because of the language barrier, we had a few problems understanding each other, then the subject of going to my place was out of range and we went back to the club. After that nothing interesting happened, we chilled a bit, convo, and were both tired and wanted to go home. We went for a walk and as sitting down I offered for her to sit on my lap, she refused:cry:

As I walked her to her train, I hugged her and tried to talk to her real close, lips to lips to see if I can get a kiss out of her, and she avoided that (hopefully not because of my breath, you know how its in the morning :crazy: )

Ok, now I think my first mistake was not dancing with her in the club, then maybe I really wanted to f-close her (had everything prepared and planned, it was actually the perfect situation for a lay). Then I didnt manage to build attraction at the right time, probably beacause when I saw how fine she looks, I lost the right mindset and started chasing her.

It was funny though how 20 guys in the club were eyeing and trying to hit on her all the time and envying me (or maybe they wanted to kick the sh!t out of me:whistle: )

Anyway, I feel like this was a messup, cause her interest level as we met was really high, and dropped drastically as we parted. I am a bit confused right now, and would appreciate some piece of advice, suggestions, where I messed up and what can I learn from this?

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I know I shouldnt beat myself down cause its all a learning experience and I should be having fun, but how do I do that? I think that I would start not really caring about the outcome of a date only after I do it a lot.
I guess I'll have to start gathering numbers again, but I just feel frustrated and it sucks!
 

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3/10 numbers (emails), 7 to go
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Yesterday got the number from a chick I met in the park, she has a boyfriend though. She said he's "understanding"! would that mean AFC in ********:D ?? We agreed to meet on friday.
In the evening (also yesterday) I approached 2 young girls from behind, normally I don't do it this way, but my wingman wanted me to, so I stopped them and with a smily chatted them up for a minute, and then got the digits from one of them, though she's not the tipe I would go on a date with, so it doesnt count.
Today I approached a polnish woman (31 years old) though looks like 24 or so. She cant speak any german nor english, it was hard to make rapport, so I used as much kino as I could and got her polnish number, text-messaged her later but she said we could maybe meet tomorrow. I think the only tool I can use in this case is kino.

Now I have 4 # and I will take the weekend to get the other 6.
 
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Today did 2 approaches, 1# close. She was waiting for her bus and smoking, I walked in front of her, took a look at the shedule, and then asked her if I could buy a cigarette from her. Got the cigarette, made a 30 sec long convo, then her bus came and I asked whats she doing tonight (I dont have time to wait 3-4 days, cause I'm leaving Vienna this monday), she had nothing planned, then asked her if she wants to come with me, and took her number. She's 16 but looks like 14. Small but nice tits :whistle:

The first girl I approached was sitting waiting for somebody. As I approached her, she picked up her phone as talking to somebody, I was real cool, just standing next to her waiting to finish her call, but as I asked her who's she waiting for, her mother was 10 feet away and she left. Anyway I felt very confident and relaxed. Thats what counts.

5# and five more to go
 

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Damn, my wingman Gladiator is right: I MUST have a more determined attitude during my pickups, use KINO , be more direct and always project a sexual state. It was all good, I really improved a lot during the 5 weeks of this bootcamp, I am able to make my approaches smooth, but I still can't get any püssy!!!!!!
I am tired of putting so much time and effort into it and not getting any girls.
From now on I will change my attitude, I will be DIRECT! I will use as much kino as possible and I mean BOLDLY!!!!

I am still not done with this weeks exercise as planned, but as I am the only one left in this bootcamp I will take more time and continue.

The next three weeks I will be on vacation and I DO need a rest, so I am not planning to do anything, but will of course use any opportunity I might get. I will continue with the bootcamp after I come back to Vienna.
 

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Gunwitch's post hit it best:

Sexual and persistent.

FIRST you are masculine, persistent, aggressive, dominant. This triggers her psychological reaction that we all have when we feel someone has a more dominant character. Look at how those without an identity of their own cling to people of other races, and begin to match their state of mind and even start to talk or act like them after hanging out together. Women do this with basically any man they end up having sex with, or they simply never feel like a woman/passive/takes in/ submissive.

Here it is:
The SINGLE most important aspect of picking up women.
 

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I'm back from vacation, back to work. I'll finish the 5th week this weekend, and start with the 6th on monday. Till now I had only one date, collected the 10 numbers, even more, but only five od them are still valid. So I'll work on the numbers this week and make other dates on the next week.
 

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Doing good man. A few times in the past i've been with a HB and shes got tired and I would have put money on it that i'd messed things up, then she'd phone me like things are all good the next day or 2 days later. In my case its always turned out they were still interested though it seemed they wasn't at the time. Have you been in contact with the polish chick?
 

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onyx said:
Doing good man. A few times in the past i've been with a HB and shes got tired and I would have put money on it that i'd messed things up, then she'd phone me like things are all good the next day or 2 days later. In my case its always turned out they were still interested though it seemed they wasn't at the time. Have you been in contact with the polish chick?
Thanks for your input onyx!
Interesting you ask, I still kept contact with her, she told me we'll meet on the next week, but yesterday I saw her with another guy. I dont know whether it's worth seeing her anymore or not, I guess I'll just do it for experience, if she wont want to come home with me, I'll ditch her ass.
 
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