boot camp week 3 help

[humiliator]

Okay, so my mission for week 3 is to talk to ten girls around my age that I find attractive. I was able to achieve my week 2 goal by simply talking to people I met in everyday encounters (i.e. chatting with cashiers at stores).

But with week 3 narrowing down the people I approach to just hot chicks, I think I'm going to have to actively seek them. What types of places should I go to?

Coffee shops? I live in Seattle, so there are a sh*tload of coffee shops all over the place. I could go there while some crappy punk band will be playing for free at one of them. (That's when there'll be a lot of people there). I'm a student, so if I go to a coffee shop that's near the university, there should be a lot of people (and therefore chicks) around my age (fellow students) there.

Malls? I see a lot of people talking about them here. It doesn't seem like a good idea to me though. Malls are lame. They're where 12 year olds hang out.

18+ clubs? I'm not 21, so going to a regular bar or club is not possible. However, I think the music at a club would be ridiculously loud, and conversation wouldn't be too easy.

Book stores? A lot of dudes on here talk about going to book stores. When do you think they are most busy? It seems weird to go there not actually looking for a book though. One of the first topics of conversation would be what kind of book you're looking for. Any tips?

Grocery store? There was a really hot girl I started talking to at a grocery store last week. I bailed out because I got nervous. (Apparently I'm still very, very AFC).

Are there any other places you would recommend going to?

 

[HypeR]

Parties and ofcourse the gym.

 

[humiliator]

Well, if I hear about a party, I'll go to it for sure. (I'd do this even if I wasn't doing the bootcamp). I'm not that well-connected to people who host large parties, and plus since it's summer there's a lot less students around.

Can anyone give me more tips on the gym? Of course I've seen tons of hot chicks there before, but it seems weird to approach them. Everyone is concentrating on their workouts. I've seen other people here talk about getting on a machine like a stationary bike next to one an HB is on. If I were the HB, I still wouldn't want to be bothered while working out though...

I suppose if you can be stretching or getting a drink at the same time as an HB, that could work...

 

[Caldus]

Yeah if you're getting a drink at the same time then just start up a convo with her. You can always try girls that work at small stores (they are usually by themselves and easy to approach).

The coffee shop thing sounds like a good idea. Parties are always good too if you can find some. I know of one or two once in a while but the same people usually go to it.

 

[Metalixia]

Do you have any benches or bus stops near?

I see alot of girls, usually in groups, sitting and chatting on benches, mostly watching the boys pass by. Why not chat to them?

Often too, on a bus. Just use a compliment, and develop a converation.

If things go silent and awkward, you have permission to use some of my lines:

"I'm trying to chat you up - work with me!"
"You're a VERY chatty girl aren't you?"
"Slow down, I can't quite make out what you're sayinng!"

Always smile afterwards.

You have all the help you need now.