"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kidd

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ak89

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I'm In

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I am finnally ready to do the boot camp if all yall doing it then i am too.
 

HateCrew

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hi you can count me in, i am very shy about woman and i really want to do something about it :)

i hope i will succeed, but the motivation is here

msn:[email protected]

grts from holland, HateCrew
 

Maverick001

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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AFCinBC

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IN !!!
Why the **** not, beats sitting at home beatin off to pics of the women I stalk.



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-Sir!, Sir!, Which way did that murderous clown bastard go!!
-The Dream of Earth.
 

Slimijs

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Maybe I should improve my street game, cause right now I don't have one. All I do now are just clubs, bars and pizza places.

I could join you guys, but I don't have a messenger, and probably won't have one in the near future. So you'll probably hear my results only from here.

Or maybe I'll merge the first week or the second week together or something. Ah, I'm just too ****ing lazy for this stuff :(

Anyway, my post didn't make any sense.

nuff said, probably in.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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undesputable

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we should start a brand new boot camp for all the new comers. besides i never got a chance to do it
 

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I agree, someone should start an all new Boot Camp for everyone to join in like last time.

This thread was great but it's the past man. It's time for a new generation of Boot Camp.

What do you say frivolous? Do you want to start the thread?

You don't have to join in you know...
 

BrotherAP

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Well, if a new boot camp starts... I'm in. I'll tell you what - if I get 4 others (besides myself) to be "in" - I'll start the damn thread. Let's just stop beating around the bushes, and get some commitment goin
 

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I just suggested frivolous start it because he started the big bootcamp thread last fall.

I'll bump that one for ol' times sake.....

I sure had some glory days back then.....
 
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