"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Pilot

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Ha! No need for a contest... the guy who gets the girls gets to brag about it - that's motivation for me! :)

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Unforsaken

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well, I was think of getting e-mail address. So you can msg every women e-mail address a get for verifications. (but I guess someone can make alot of account and cheat). Wish you all luck and you guys better bring your A game.
 

Lost In Translation

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ok i must have missed it somewhere, can someone please give me the link to the DJ BOOT CAMP instruction thread.

:D

Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: Don Juanabbe
What are you Vanilla-bloody-Ice?

Quote: Player_Supreme
“ But if a ho wants to just be friends then don't waste your time. And I'm a debase character so your hooking up with her friend in front of her was sweet to my ears. “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lost In Translation

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thanks, i knew it was right under my nose :D




Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: Don Juanabbe
What are you Vanilla-bloody-Ice?

Quote: Player_Supreme
“ But if a ho wants to just be friends then don't waste your time. And I'm a debase character so your hooking up with her friend in front of her was sweet to my ears. “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “
 

triple_ultima

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I'm unclear...are we starting now or tomorrow?

Oh by the way:
AIM - brillopad71
 

david90

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good luck all.

For those of you who are excited and think that you're going to change from a afc into dj soon, stop it. It takes time. It is not a smooth change. You're going to fumble and fall so don't expect too much. Think of it as a long term goal so that if you fail a challege, you won't feel bad about it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dapper Swindler

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I've already started bootcamp. I don't think I need to join up with this one. I feel like whenever I read about other peoples' bootcamps I see they are doing better than me. Then I start to feel hopeless and my motivation goes way down. But please, any encouragement you can muster for me goes a long way so stop by my bootcamp thread.
 

duke007

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Damn, this is the biggest boot camp class ever! Let's see how many of us last past the second week :D
 

frivolousz21

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OK i have a few questions for everyone on the setup of this.

first off.

if someone doesnt meet a challenge..do they take extended time or an extended assignment.

example. say you needed to get 50 Hello's and you got 35. should u do an extra 25 in 1 or 2 quick days to make up?

I think another thing everyone doing this should understand is that you arent doing this alone. This can be done. I know some of you are low and the totem poll.

WOMEN ARENT SCARY. THEY BETTER THAN YOU. SO WHAT IF SHE LOOKS GOOD.
CAN SHE COOK?
IS SHE GOOD IN BED?
DOES SHE KNOW WHO IS RUNNING FOR OFFICE?

you wont know till she tells you or you ask.

So boys that means we are all going to have to get to that point.

either way my b day is sept 21. and I will be 22. Id like for everyone to pass week one. that is a huge step.

Remember you are not doing this to ultimately just get women. you are doing this to strive closer to being a MAN.
 

gav

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i'm in.

so far i'm been passing weeks one and two every week, so it should be a doddle. plus it's fresher's week at my uni. this is going to take the biscuits :D

you mentioned people might not post rejections? damn, i love rejections. makes me feel human

btw, frivolous, you've got the right way of thinking...that this is for something further down the road. it's just practise for another day. (jaunwannabee's post "wake up you afcs part2)

where's the reading you were talking about in the other thread?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lifeforce

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I will join this bootcamp too. However I feel I am past saying hello and looking people in the eye, even talking to chicks doesn't make me feel any nervous. Lately I have been very busy with school, my company and other stuff so dating and girls have come last. I want to get out again, and joining this will help me and probably some of you too.

With the threadstarters permission I would like to change the bootcamp slightly for me. My goal is to find a partner and to get as much as possible out of this. I want to try out ADs machine in a little more systematic .

Week 1: Approach 20 chicks and get numbers from the ones I find suitable for dating. Get layed with one girl from the one I don't find suitable for dating.
Week 2: Go on dates with some of the numbers from week before + Approaching 20 new chicks and get layed at least once.
Week 3: same as week 2
Week 4-8: Join you guys up on the last five weeks of bootcamp.

Does this sound ok to you ?


btw my MSN: [email protected] feel free to add me.
 

frivolousz21

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sounds great..I will add you and ur email address and this post for you to the offical thread.

welcome aboard
 

Doc73

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Is it too late to join? If not count me in as well. Been in a bit of a rut and I need to get out of my comfort zone.

Email: [email protected]
 

DaMadMonk

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I'm in.

I got to get this handled in life. I was never taught by anybody to be a "Man", just grown up looking like one.

I must become a Don Juan!

Yahoo: [email protected]

MSN: [email protected]
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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