Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Thomas94305

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Guys.. am up for a boot camp. I searched the board. The only boot camps going are individuals who are just doing it by themselves. Doing it as a group is more constructive for me.

Anyone know of a boot camp forming? If so, give me the link (please). If not, and you're interested in a camp, let me know.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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yo! i may do this with you... let me know what the deal is.
 

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i need to do one aswell, lemme me know when you're starting.

I"ll have alot going on right now if i add this.
 

Thomas94305

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This is very telling. All these views, no one can point out a boot camp starting, two responders with interest. The SoSuave truth comes out, we're keyboard jockeys, nothing more??

Guys.. you need to shake your AFC ways. To do that, quit reading this post, and take ACTION. You're not even willing to raise your hand to say you're interested.

Here's the DJ boot camp:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf

The boot camp will follow this format. You'll learn, you'll grow, you'll do. You'll have the help of your buddies here, who are doing this with you. Or, do you just want to sit in front of your computer jerking off?

Whoever's man enough to change their life, post a reply..
 

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I'm in :D let me know when it's starting plz!:) i tried to start a while back but i've been really busy with school and stuff! PM me when it starts i'd feel a lot better having people learning at the same time! thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Snow Plowman

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It's a waste of time doing it as a group. 90% of the people who say they are going to do it, end up not doing it or make up an excuse. I started a bootcamp back when 07 started and I'm the only one doing it, all the others haven't even started yet.

The only person who can get you through this process is you, don't worry about everyone else doing it with you because if you really want to get this handled you'd do it and in the end you'll realize only because of your committent was the reason why you succeeded.
 

Thomas94305

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Thanks for sharing Snow Plowman.. but I wasn't asking for an opinion on group bootcamps. I'm already committed to that. Am asking if there's one going on, or if you're interested in joining one.
 

thefonz

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These bootcamps always stress me out, when does the torture begin?
 

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Thomas94305 said:
This is very telling. All these views, no one can point out a boot camp starting, two responders with interest. The SoSuave truth comes out, we're keyboard jockeys, nothing more??

Guys.. you need to shake your AFC ways. To do that, quit reading this post, and take ACTION. You're not even willing to raise your hand to say you're interested.

Here's the DJ boot camp:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf

The boot camp will follow this format. You'll learn, you'll grow, you'll do. You'll have the help of your buddies here, who are doing this with you. Or, do you just want to sit in front of your computer jerking off?

Whoever's man enough to change their life, post a reply..
This is rubbish, just get out there and cold approach the hot babes and start fvcking them, you don't need DJ Bootcamps on an internet site, become a real man, leave your fvcking computers, and sarge on.
Wusses type on internet sites, where as the true AlphaMale DJ playa's are out on the town fvcking the cutest girls. :mad: :yes: :mad:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Canadien

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I will be happy to

join the bootcamp, I'm scrared a lot but in a good way.

I'm having a kind of feeling that changes the whole outlook on life.

I've been geek long enough its time I leave my computer and join the real world...
 

greenlake

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this thread sound interesting. i can't wait to read it. what's with all the delaying. bootcamp should start tomorrow. monday sound great after a long weekend on the comp. isn't it?
 

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What's the deal thomas? Are we doing it?
 

Thomas94305

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thefonz said:
What's the deal thomas? Are we doing it?
Yep.. but a question of when for me. I had a bad personal problem. Am in the middle of research for my PhD. Got some bad results.. all part of the research game, nothing's guaranteed.. kinda like our common game. It was just too big a deal to devote much to a boot camp.

That's getting behind me now. Look for an announcement late February.

For now, be thinking of what you want from the boot camp, be prepared to share some of that when you sign up.

For example.. I've made a lot of improvement with women over the past 2 years. I socialize a lot, am more fun and playful, etc. However, I still don't reliably get number closes or first dates. My experience is that 70% of the problem really is getting over anxieties in approaching, talking, flirting; knowing what to do is really a small part. Through the bootcamp, I'll work to approach when I want, and ask for the number/date when I want. I want to squash anxieties in initiating and advancing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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