"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey, I'm a newbie here and i was wondering if anybody still does the DJ boot camp that's posted in the DJ bible. I just found this site, and i noticed nobody has posted any experiences from the boot camp in a long time. Is it outdated or something?

Well, since i'm already posting, i wanna ask question about a failed prospect.
I met a girl at my college (she basically approached me) and we hit it off quickly. At first i did pretty good, i kept her laughing and talkin' and she seemed pretty in to me. She even talked to me about how she had a bad hip, and to feel her waist to check she was telling the truth (To me, those are good signs). Then, the convo. just went dry, and she told me to talk about myself. I froze up, and it seems like she was disappointed. Since then she's been avoidin me. The only thing i can think of is that she thought i had no personality and got bored of me (Plz don't bash me for stating the obvious). So my question is: What do ya say, when someone asks u something like that, and how do u keep a convo. going and keep it interesting? Oh, yea and another thing, most girls from my class seem to be attracted to me on the lone fact that i'm quiet and semi-good looking. Should i keep that going, or just start using c/f right away?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hey! Boot Camps start up seem to start up whenever anyone wants to do one. I'm in Week 2 right now, and HIGHLY recommend it for breaking out of your shyness and AFCness:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=111687

Regarding your problem - don't get hung up on this one girl. Read the DJ Bible, and study the other material around the internet. C/F sometimes works, sometimes not, it's situational. Focus on improving yourself, and improving your game - and if you build up those things, the girls will come. ;)

Best,
Oldboy
 
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If she asks you about yourself you can either joke about it eg, say your a secret agent or in the FBI or some other retarded thing like that as a joke. Then you can try and get her talking again. Or you can learn how to speak about yourself and make it seem interesting no matter what it is. I find women are generally more talkative then men. If you can keep her talking about herself you'll do much better. And you won't have to worry about talking about yourself, if thats something you find hard to do. I'm pretty much in the same boat.
 
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