"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Boot Camp and the Bible

Dapper Don

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I've decided to go through bootcamp. It will be hard... I don't even have a car. Are we still supposed to post the results of our expirements? And I was wondering if I should really adhere to the Bible Reading program, only reading what each day says, or would it make any difference if I just read it all at once on some lazy afternoon? Maybe it would need time to digest.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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EFFORT

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Hey there Dapper Don...tell me, in what area of North Carolina do you live?
 

Dapper Don

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Starting to rethink the boot camp thing. A lack of a car is really inhibiting. And I live in the Asheville, Hendersonville area.
 

LikRetsam

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Baby steps... no leaps.
 

Microphone Fiend

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It won't make a difference if you read it all at once or take baby steps, if you decide to read it all at once take little breaks to let the material seep into your brain.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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