"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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the seducers diary - soren kierkegaard
the 48 laws of power - robert greene
mastery - robert greene
the art of seduction - robert greene
the 33 strategie of war - robert greene
the art of worldly wisdom - baltasar gracian
the idiot - dostoyevsky
nausea - jean paul sartre
being and nothingness - jean paul sartre (this book is extremely difficult)
being and time - martin hiedegger (this book is extremely difficult)
simulacra and simulation - ‎Jean Baudrillard
Tractatus Logico Philosophicus - Wittgenstein
The castle - Franz Kafka
anything by shakespeare
A song of ice and fire (the game of thrones series)
Phenomenology of Spirit - Hegel


I dont know, this is more or less the type of sh*t i like to read. Stuff that will increase my power and anything philosophical. I warn you, the philosophy books are frustratingly difficult to read.
 

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Go read 'the psychology of self esteem' by Nathaniel Brandon.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Radical Honest is one of my favorite books and helps he be honest with everyone including my family.
 

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"No more mr nice guy"- robert glover

The Art of War- SUn Tzu
 

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"No more mr nice guy" - Robert Glover

Just finishing up "Rationale Male II" - Rollo Tomassi
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Represent Yourself in Court" by Nolo Press, as well as any of Nolo's other books that interest you.

IMO learning some law is another level of taking charge of your own life and saying "hey world you ain't gonna fvck with me or screw me over." Just like going to the gym and getting all buff. Law knowledge is a strength you can use over and over again in all areas of life. My daughter told me not too long ago "My mom said she hopes you never take her to court, she is scared of you". Her mom(my real ex wife) and I are getting along fine now, no problems. At this time I have no plans or thoughts to take her to court. But just the idea she is scared of me from a legal perspective puts me in a pretty good place should issues ever come up in the future with our daughter.
 

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The 48 laws of power are a good point to start, it teaches you something worth and open your mind.

The art of was as well altough its less pratical.

Consider also rich dad, poor dad
 
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