"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Books woman love to read

3dmad

New Member
Joined
Mar 29, 2006
Messages
4
Reaction score
0
I would like to know what are the books that woman would love to want as gift from their boy friend? Since a book can really makes some difference so it is important to pay some attention to this. Please share your experience regarding this
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

playboy_supreme

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 1, 2006
Messages
41
Reaction score
0
depends on the girl. im asuming you are buying your gf a book rite? what is she into. hobbies etc you know her not us!!! use your head. if she likes to watch romance movies. get her a good selling romance novel do a search or ask the librarian whats good. if she likes to go sky diving on weekends. get her a sky diving book. what do YOU think she would like?

there is no general what woman read books. they all read different things.

if you really cant think of anything then go by what type of girl she is. is she a sweet good girl? bad girl, freak, geek? and buy a book according to that! hope ive helped
 

3dmad

New Member
Joined
Mar 29, 2006
Messages
4
Reaction score
0
thanks playboy for your help. yes, I made up my mind to buy her some romance novel.
 

Wyldfire

Banned
Joined
Oct 25, 2001
Messages
9,104
Reaction score
28
Personally, I think a romance novel is a bad idea. I'd start a fire with one before I read one. There's a good chance she won't even read it.

If you want to get her a book, try to get her "The Only Astrology Book You'll Ever Need". I have that book and EVERY female, EVERY type, EVERY personality woman who has ever stepped foot in my home loves that book and asks to borrow it. It's a safe bet for a book gift and she'll actually open it. :D

Here's a link to the book on Amazon:

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0812885066/102-3990078-1448107?v=glance&n=283155
 

Keeper

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 27, 2004
Messages
503
Reaction score
0
Age
40
Location
South Africa
Get her a book about herself. For Christmas I got my girl a book called "Captivating" By J Eldridge, I think. The undertitle was: "Unlocking the mysteries of a woman's soul." She loved it. Started telling me all about it. And it was a lucky book for her, because it basically promotes us guys, saying that we're supposed to be the pants, and that they're supposed to be the "vulnerable" ones.

Good stuff.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Keeper

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 27, 2004
Messages
503
Reaction score
0
Age
40
Location
South Africa
Soprano said:
and when you give it to her tell her "you need this. :yes: " :up:
Same works with a diet book...
 

Soprano

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 4, 2005
Messages
715
Reaction score
3
Keeper said:
Same works with a diet book...
hahhaahahhaa

like any self help book

mental help

how to make friends

im gonna do that next time i cant get out of giving a girl a gift
 

Wyldfire

Banned
Joined
Oct 25, 2001
Messages
9,104
Reaction score
28
Soprano said:
hahhaahahhaa

like any self help book

mental help

how to make friends

im gonna do that next time i cant get out of giving a girl a gift

My ex husband had a book called "How to make friends for Dummies", lol.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

penkitten

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2001
Messages
8,256
Reaction score
236
Age
49
Location
at our house
here are some books that are all the rage :

sarah vowell - assassination vacation
a million little pieces - james frey
the curious incident of the dog in the night time - mark haddon
1000 places to see before you die - patricia schultz

here are some books that are about to be out and are suppose to be hits:
the joy of doing things badly- veronica chambers
the $64 tomato- william alexander
 
Top