"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Books that girls like to see on your bookshelf/coffee table?

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Lets make a list of books that girls like to see when they come over to your house.

I recommend "The Secret Language of Birthdays". Girls are always interested in it and you can tease them about stuff in their profile and talk about the DHVs in your own profile.

Anybody else have any suggestions?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My Secret Garden, The Karma Sutra.

Tera Patrick's autobiography :D

I'm serious about this too. Girls do get curious about My Secret Garden.
 

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Have a Giant Black Book with Leather Binding in another language like Gaelic. Just keep it there and when she tries to pull it out tell her no one is allowed to look at it.
 

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The Necronomicon is pretty good
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well, let's see, here are some ideas:

1) hardcore porno magazines.
2) nuclear terrorism.
3) books on seduction (you can tell her that you've tried some techniques to get her to your room, but are sort of stuck since you want to have fun right now and forgot what to do, and then see if she can help you out).
4) show her your serial killer book collection.

Okay, I'm just kidding. But now that you know what NOT to get, you can get anything else you want. Try something you are passionate about and would have energy and gusto describing to her and impress her. Go for it!

...and please, hide your porno magazines when she's there.
 

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Who cares.

I don't have much respect for men who try to pick up hobbies/interests, change their appearance (clothes, facial hair), or really do anything they wouldn't otherwise do simply to attract women.

Be your own person and women will naturally be drawn to you.
 

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Serg897 said:
Who cares.
Amen. What books you have aren't going to make or break the deal. That's all on you. You could have a shelf full of sci fi, motivational and history books and still get laid, oh wait, thats my bookshelf.

Serg897 said:
I don't have much respect for men who try to pick up hobbies/interests, change their appearance (clothes, facial hair), or really do anything they wouldn't otherwise do simply to attract women.

Be your own person and women will naturally be drawn to you.
I was with you until here. Some men, and you know the type. Need to change a lot not just for women but to be happy fufilled men. If chasing women gets em started, then good. But you know the fat video game playing computer/comic book nerd pimply faced guy with girly arms? he needs to change everything to attract a woman. It will make him a better man overall in the end.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Feynman's lectures on physics, Network +, The Game, Fundamentals of multivariate calculus, making of the atomic bomb.

I read what I want. if a chicks not into it, they can go back to their boring dumb hovel and read celebrity magazines without me.
 

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I guess I should revise my statement a bit. You should improve yourself for your own benefit if you must, and women will come naturally.

But changing the books on your bookshelf to what you think girls will like? Waste of time.
 

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Have "It's ok to be neurotic" and tell her that books is totally about them haha OOOOR Be like "ohh yeah, that book is like my bible, I'm probly gonna be neating you within half an hour" they wil llaugh like crazy and guess who the good feeling transfers to?
 

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just have whatever books you read on there. I wouldn't buy books just to look good. If you study chemistry, you're gonna have chemistry books on there..if you're into horse care, likewise you're gonna have books about horses on there.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i actually have a mini library in my room, with books ranging from philosophy and art history to quantum mechanics and non-euclidian geometry. it's a real panty-dropper.
 

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DonJoseCantosie said:
The Karma Sutra
I'm sure you meant the Kama Sutra as my book hasn't been released yet. I appreciate it though and, yes, my book on any coffee table will make quite the conversation piece.

On my coffee table is a book about the life and work of Salvador Dali, Thomas Harris' Hannibal, Miyomoto Musashi's The Book of Five Rings, Aleister Crowley's Magick in Theory and Practice (the rare purple hardcover), and this month's Hustler.

Diversity at it's best!
 

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hopelessguy said:
i actually have a mini library in my room, with books ranging from philosophy and art history to quantum mechanics and non-euclidian geometry. it's a real panty-dropper.
You've gotta be a fan of Lost...
 

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omega05 said:
These females don't care about what books you have.
If you're referencing dishrag chicks who you jump and dump, you're correct.

If you want conversation and depth with a woman who respects herself and your presence, you'd better start appreciating words.

The books you read do tell alot about who you are.
 

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The women you'd want to ƒuck don't read anything beyond what's within arm's reach in the checkout line at the grocery store.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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