"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Books teaching illusions, magic tricks

Swagger

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hey guys,

i've been using the mystery method a lot in clubs and lots of it really work well and the rest I'm probably not doing right yet lol

i'm looking for a good book that teaches some ilusions and magic tricks and stuff to give myself some more possibilities to demonstrate value.

who has recommendations?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So pimp its scary

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No you're not doing it right... you're not mystery.

No suggestions either.
 

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yeah, i know that i'm not mystery. but a lot of stuff works well for me.

some magic tricks help you out, once the the conversation starts getting dry, you know? you can definitaly save a conversation.

thanks for the link? anyone got more recommendations?
 

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So_Pimp you are SO right this is the first time I've been back to the forum since it got updated. I read a few new posts and I started to wonder wtf has happened? This forum was supposed to be about giving genuine help and advice and the only criticism was constructive (most of the time anyway). Of the few post I have just read people are just b1tching at each other even resorting to name calling - if anyone is here just to insult people then they should just leave.

Anyway, Swagger, you say some things you think you are not doing right - well just keep practicing 'cos you know what practice makes...(or try it on a different 'type' of girl)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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