"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what are books that have either challenged or changed your worldview? Like books that seriously impacted the way you look at life, or managed to conceptualize a previously esoteric concept?

I haven't really read much for the past half a decade so this summer I figured I'd read

on a recommendation, I picked up Eckhart Tolle's "The Power of Now". I also wanted to read either the Fountainhead or Atlas Shrugged, I haven't decided which one yet

any other suggestions?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Secret History of the American Empire: Economic Hit Men, Jackals, and the Truth about Global Corruption - John Perkins

After living the past 6 years in DC, and every 5 months each year now it's definitely opened my eyes even more. You don't take everything at face value; but it's not like I did before.
 

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thanks guys

I'm looking these up right now
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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the last moghul

well the last moghul has changed my view abt the world in a big way ....i am really thankful to the book for all its information!
 

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Physics of the Impossible......doesnt challenge worldwide views, but it is an interesting book.

Talks about how probably things such as laser beems, teleporting technology, light speed, etc will be in the future. If u are into that kinda stuff, its worth reading
 

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The Prince by Machiavelli was an eye-opener, but I'd say that the 48 Laws of Power book is a better, modernized version of The Prince, so read that instead.
 

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yea I got the 48 Laws on my shelf. I tend to look at the book more as an entertaining read than something applicable to my life. Maybe it's just the way I think

and thanks again for the responses everyone
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Prince of Nothing series by R. Scott Bakker. It's Fantasy, but it's amazing, dark, thick plot and it will challenge your views.

I am interested in The Game by Neil Straus, but I find it kind of eerie that it's modeled after the Holy Bible, and I think that a lot of the info can be found on the web and sites like this one.

Noreigen(sp) Wood is an awesome book by a Japanese author who is just insanely talented at getting you involved with the story and playing with your senses and emotions, not to mention the roller coaster plots and deep character developments in all of his books. I high recommend his books.
 

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I liked Freakonomics and Blink a lot. I prefer reading fiction most of the time though, but as suggestions from others I read those and found they were interesting.
 

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bmxcetera said:
I liked Freakonomics and Blink a lot. I prefer reading fiction most of the time though, but as suggestions from others I read those and found they were interesting.
Excellent and entertaining book.

I suggest:

The 48 Laws of Power

How to win friends and influence people

The Secret

The Oddessey

The Art of War

Crime and Punishment

1984

A Book of Five Rings

The Great Gatsby

and

Think big and kick ass
 

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my sister just came in and asked me why the fvck I was reading Atlas Shrugged. she read it in high school and I guess she hated it. lol

I enjoyed the Game but I thought most of the portrayals were straight up character assassination, especially TD. I used to lurk on fastseduction so most of what happened in that book I read in FR's off the msg boards

The best body language book I ever read was Teach Yourself Body Language. To the point, no fluff, and with a ton of exercises you can do in field to prove to yourself that what the book taught works. The Teach Yourself series also has an NLP book, which is awesome and helps you realize there's a ton more to it than just speed seduction. Again, no fluff, just well organized concepts

Carnegie's book is good but there's a less popular book out there called How to Have Confidence and Success with People by Les Giblin. Once again, no fluff, and it goes into more depth than Carnegie's book. Both of them basically focus on how people are ruled by their ego but I like Giblin's book a lot better. Once in a while there'll be a guy who hits up this board who has no working model of how to get people to like him whatsoever, even on the friendship tip. He'd benefit from reading either of these

And one of the best social psychology books I ever read was Influence by Cialdini. It was written to explain how sales and advertising use tricks to get what they want from you. A ton of pick-up and seduction models grew out of this book (IE social proof originated from here)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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