"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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books on how to act right

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I have come to realize that I think I am gonna have to start hooking up with higher eschelon women from now on. girls with like money and class and all that sh!t.

unfortunately, although I grew up surrounded by money, I never really had like anything layed out in front of me, or went to cotillion or anything.

anyone know any good books or resources on how to act right? like proper manners in situations? like pretty much a cotillion in book form? preferably one I can torrent :)

any help is much appreciated
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Are you sheltered??

I went to boarding school where we were taught manners, I grew up in an old fashioned house hold, I know preppy people.

Your life isnt the movies man, manners and all that crap are only for the royal family on TV.

No1 acts like that.
 

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There's nothing at all wrong with learning manners and etiquette. It will help you attract a higher-class woman.

However, young powow, we need to start at a more basic level.

A man of character and who is worthy of respect always pays for his educational resources. He does not steal knowledge from others in order to improve his character. Aside from the obvious incongruity of stealing to facilitate improvement of character, the fact is that knowledge gained for free is rarely valued deep down inside.

Forget the torrent and Google for a good book on manners for men. You can go to Amazon to get real reviews so you know you can find something that has been valuable to others.
 

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I was taught to eat peas with the wrong end of a fork, thats the PROPER way to eat peas, with the CONVEX side of a FORK, you use your knife to get them on there.

I know higher class women, all you need to know is to be courteous to people, be more on the apologetic side than the ******* side of things.

Stuff like:

take the piece of food closest to you on the plate.

put your napkin on your lap

When walking down the street you should be between the girl and the gutter.

No1 notices


Things people do notice:

Cutlery you use outside to in.

Dont drive like james bond with your hand on the gear stick.


What sort of stuff do you want to know???
 

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thanks for that

I will check out amazon for resources. I've bought books from there before and they are usually about $5, worth whatever knowledge is in there.

and yeah, basically I have been called gaston three times in the last 6 months.
you know, gaston from beauty and the beast?

I just figured things should be worth knowing.

I live by a code which emphasizes loyalty and honesty to those I care about and deceit and treachery to those I don't. I live by the way of the samurai as public and ninja in private.

To be a true ninja, one must be adept in the ways of class, to be able to play his game within all settings.

I figure that high class broads yield good genetics, the final aim of this game that we are playing. its a new realm for me, and I'm interested to see how to play by these new rules.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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basically things that allow one to hit an ideal.

like, tip in cash, because it helps the waiter because its tax free and doesn't have to be claimed.

or use nets on your laundry because it saves the fabric on the shirt.

stuff that implies more or less smarts or ideals, and less of like boring bull**** that doesnt display anything except for the fact that you know that stuff.
 
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