"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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books for my 17y/o son?

The Diver

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Hi Guys,my son just turned 17 and I would like to buy him a book/s that will guide him/introduce him to the "real" dating world, women, relationship , alpha traits, developing skills to be successful with women, and in life in general, and to steer him away from developing the AFC mindset.
He is young and without any experience with the other sex, (from what I could see) and therefore the books is for a "Beginner" (No hard core at the moment, I dont want to scare him ,,,)
Thanks for your advice.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi Guys,my son just turned 17 and I would like to buy him a book/s that will guide him/introduce him to the "real" dating world, women, relationship , alpha traits, developing skills to be successful with women, and in life in general, and to steer him away from developing the AFC mindset.
He is young and without any experience with the other sex, (from what I could see) and therefore the books is for a "Beginner" (No hard core at the moment, I dont want to scare him ,,,)
Thanks for your advice.
Ironically not a real book but the book of pook might be a good start for him.
 

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How to Succeed with Women - Louis and Copeland
Art of Seduction - Robert Greene
48 Laws of Power - Robert Greene
Journey to Ixtlan -
Carlos Castaneda
The System - Doc Love
1984 - George Orwell
 

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Take him to the titty bar and then buy him a few hookers. He will learn that women are nothing special,can be easily replaced, and every one of them can be bought.
 

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Brave New World - Aldous Huxley
War and Peace - Leo Tolstoy
Summa Theologica - Thomas Aquinas

Keep him distracted as long as possible.....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Predatory Female by Lawrence Shannon.
 

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I'd get him "The Game" by Neil Strauss, just as an introduction to it. Unless he's heavily into theories and the mechanics of how things work, he's going to find a lot of the previously mentioned books dry. Get him really hungry for success with women before you give him the manuals. The Game will give him some of the very basics, but is full of success stories to go along with it.

The Book of Pook was a good suggestion as well.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thanks for your thought guys. The book of pook looks like a good start for him , and hope It'll trigger his appetite to explore onward by himself.
Cheers
 
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