"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Books About Feminism--Worth Reading?

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Is reading books about feminism worth the time it takes to read them? I think it might give me an idea about how some women think (the feminists). Also, it's another potential conversation topic.
The two that I am considering reading are:
Opposing Viewpoints: feminism, and Radical Feminism.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is reading books about feminism worth the time it takes to read them? I think it might give me an idea about how some women think (the feminists). Also, it's another potential conversation topic.
The two that I am considering reading are:
Opposing Viewpoints: feminism, and Radical Feminism.
The Princess At The Window, by Donna LaFramboise
 

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Vagina Monolgues lmao or how about Sex at Dawn?

bwah, I’m in a jesting mood today…
 

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Is reading books about feminism worth the time it takes to read them? I think it might give me an idea about how some women think (the feminists). Also, it's another potential conversation topic.
The two that I am considering reading are:
Opposing Viewpoints: feminism, and Radical Feminism.
Although it is brutally anti-feminist, it is an nevertheless an eye-opener for feminism and reached the #1 spot on Amazon for feminist studies, surpassing Betty Friedan and Gloria Steinem, before being banned from there: Sexual Utopia in Power: The Feminist Revolt Against Civilization by F. Roger Devlin.

And yes, I think reading about feminism, whether from a pro- or anti-feminist stance is worth it. I say this as someone who has a seething anti-feminist.
 
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Why would you care about that since you are already successful with women?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why would you care about that since you are already successful with women?
Because it is another topic to talk about with women. Suppose I were to meet a 9/10 or even a 10/10 women who is a feminist, I can talk with her about feminism and perhaps build more attraction with her.
 

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Because it is another topic to talk about with women. Suppose I were to meet a 9/10 or even a 10/10 women who is a feminist, I can talk with her about feminism and perhaps build more attraction with her.
That sounds anti seduction as a topic. You generally want to avoid heavy intellectual topics, especially if is against your own gender's interest. It takes people out of the mood.
 

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That's pretty sly, but I'm afraid it won't work. The type of feminists wanting to discuss feminism with men will not be sexually available.
Perhaps you're right, but I think it's worth a try. I'll only read one or two books on the subject most likely, that way I'm not too invested in case it is futile.
 
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You shouldn't waste your time with topics that women are interested in. Their interests are inherently feminine and fickle, which i think they know on a base level.

Deep down, they know you're an idiot or a simp

You should look to find some kind of passion in your own life, outside of women.

Game can help you attract women, but you can only fake it for so long. You have to develop a sense of confidence in yourself, which in all honesty, takes years

You would have 100x the success if you confidently told women that they belonged in the kitchen. And when they gave you the typical exaggerated response, you said "i'm just kidding lol, but you're cute when you're excited"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Because it is another topic to talk about with women. Suppose I were to meet a 9/10 or even a 10/10 women who is a feminist, I can talk with her about feminism and perhaps build more attraction with her.
A general rule is that anytime you spend a lot of time doing something to try to impress women, it will just backfire on you. Let alone the fact that you're reading into bullsh*t simp philosophy.

First off, even if you do happen to "attract" a feminist by showing off your knowledge of feminism, she's never going to look up to you the way you'd want her to - unless you're one of those who gets off on being the b*tch in S&M roleplay. She'd probably think of you as an "ally" but never respect you with sincere attraction that happens in normal male/female dynamics.

Second of all...she's a feminist. Modern feminism hates masculinity and gets triggered easily by anything masculine. You can't just be a normal male. You're basically forcing yourself to play into the nice guy role, which these types of girls will act like it's good but they'll deep down despise you and laugh at how pathetic you are.
 

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You would have 100x the success if you confidently told women that they belonged in the kitchen. And when they gave you the typical exaggerated response, you said "i'm just kidding lol, but you're cute when you're excited"
I think you're right about this.
 

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I've never met a woman who was actually interested in having a philosophical discussion of any kind. It also doesn't help that a lot of them don't have any problems with the existence of double standards.

It takes about 5 seconds for conversations about feminism to be taken as mansplaining, at which point you have bombed far harder than if you never brought it up in the first place.

You can have a good relationship with a feminist. My gf and I are going on 5 years and she identifies as a feminist, but she's second wave, not radical.

My approach is that I'm not a woman, and feminism is none of my business aside from the principle that I think everyone should be treated based on their character and not their immutable characteristics.

Radical feminism is just another term for identity politics, aka Marxist trash.
 

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Is reading books about feminism worth the time it takes to read them? I think it might give me an idea about how some women think (the feminists). Also, it's another potential conversation topic.
The two that I am considering reading are:
Opposing Viewpoints: feminism, and Radical Feminism.
No, don't read them. The only reason you want to read them is to maybe document how ret*rded feminists are and taking notes for some kind of discussion later. Feminism is literally a big sh*t test and reading anything by them is like reading fanfiction.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No, don't read them. The only reason you want to read them is to maybe document how ret*rded feminists are and taking notes for some kind of discussion later. Feminism is literally a big sh*t test and reading anything by them is like reading fanfiction.
Interesting! I won't read them, then.
 
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