"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It is my understanding that you cannot bookmark threads. That is, if you find a particular thread interesting and you would like to save it, there is no way to bookmark the thread for easy referall at a later date. All I do now is post something and then do a search on my user name later to retrieve the posts I want. Is there any easier way to bookmark some threads in the user cp section, or add a bookmark control. I think it would be very useful.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just bookmark them with your internet browser.

Using IE you goto favorites -> add to favorites
 
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Book marking the threads in explorer won't really work for me as I use a computer at work, my home computer is older and the modem is messed up, so I have to use the one at work. As you can imagine, I don't really want to bookmark any of the threads so other people can stumble upon them, if you know what I mean.

Any more input from other people about adding something to user cp?

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here is another way around that... Keep a floppy disk with a word document on it. copy/paste the link into the word document on ur floppy and put a little description underneath it. In MS word you can press ctrl+left click of mouse to goto that link.
 
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I haven't tried this yet myself, but can't you subscribe to threads?

I think that could solve your problem, and you get to impliment your handy dandy user cp! :D

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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