Booked a trip from California to Florida to see girl I met online, she flakes.

[calitoflorida]

I booked a trip from California to Florida to see a girl I met online. She said that she loved me and that she wanted to be with me. I asked her if I booked a trip for 2 weeks if she would see me everyday when I was in Florida. She said for sure.

So i took the plunge, booked a trip, hotel, all the works. When I get here, to my dismay, after taking for hours online everyday, she says she is not in the mood to see me. Now I am stuck here for 2 weeks all alone and spent all of my fooking money.

She says, dont be mad, she will see me next time I am here.

Why are women this evil?

 

[Packers2010]

why!... why!

why MUST you troll our forum! just leave us alone! what have we done to hurt you?!

 

[calitoflorida]

why!... why!

why MUST you troll our forum! just leave us alone! what have we done to hurt you?!

It makes no sense why she would talk to me everyday online for hours. And saying she wants to see me really bad. Then when I arrive in Florida, suddenly she cannot see me.

Why would girls do this? What is the thought process behind this. Please explain from a females perspective.

This is a true story.

 

[Mike32ct]

East coast women are evil. They lie all the time. Even when they tell the truth, they are still BSing you.

 

[zinc4]

I remember my first beer.

 

[JoeMarron]

Goddammit fk this online chit! Why the hell would you travel thousands of miles for a chick youve never met? You shouldve made her ass get on a plane to see you! Spend these two weeks doing nothing but studying the dj bible.

 

[Aristippus]

Now that you've been burned, you might as well forget it and make the most of the situation. Find some activities you'll enjoy doing and do them. Find some nice clubs or bars where classy people hang out and just practice meeting and having conversations with people and with women. Go to the beach. Find other interesting and fun things to do. Just lean back, relax, and play everything cool. If they ask what brings you there, skip the sob story and just tell them you're on vacation. You can tell them that the other party that was supposed to fly there and meet you had a family emergency. Or tell them you're there on business. Whatever. I normally discourage lying, but in this case, I think you need to be able to save face somehow and to be able to have a story you can tell so you won't feel bad every time a question about why or how long you're there comes up. That in itself could prevent you from meeting new people and simply enjoying yourself for the rest of the time you're there.

BE THANKFUL you don't have to waste another ounce of time and energy on this b*tch. Do NOT answer her phone calls or instant messages. Do NOT respond to her emails. Block her from your email and messaging services and never look back. Oh, and STOP doing the online thing. You never know what you're going to get. She could have simply been a cold b*tch that was everything she said she was. She could have also been a grotesque beast that thought you'd never fly out there. Then all of a sudden when she realized you were serious, she was backed in a corner and refused to reveal the grotesque beast and made all manner of excuses not to see you. Either way, online is too iffy and you can't base all of your hopes on it. Anyway, good luck and have fun! Oh, and be glad you dodged a bullet.

 

[calitoflorida]

I am so fcking depressed I just want to go home. Ive met her before previously on a trip to Florida, so this is not the first time. Then I said I would come out there to see her because she practically begged me and she is not in the mood.

I hate every fvcking woman in the world except my mom.

 

[calitoflorida]

I just want to know what is going on in her mind. Can anyone here with more experience with women tell me why she chose to screw me over?

 

[Mike32ct]

Forget about keeping in touch with vacation girls. Have your fling during your first trip and then move on.

It's easy for them to say "Come back and visit me " in the moment. But IME, 99 percent of the time, they get cold feet when or slightly before it happens.

 

[Slickster]

Single guy in Florida with nothing to do. Sounds like fun to me.

 

[calitoflorida]

Forget about keeping in touch with vacation girls. Have your fling during your first trip and then move on.

It's easy for them to say "Come back and visit me " in the moment. But IME, 99 percent of the time, they get cold feet when or slightly before it happens.

It seems women dont really care who they hurt or how much money they cost you. They might even take pleasure in it.

But as men we are supposed to be nice and treat women with respect and women are always saying men are dogs blah blah blah.

men are much better compared to women. women are the true evil.

 

[irocknike23]

if this is not a troll post and is true...

to the OP...

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!
YOU ARE AN IDIOT!:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:


ahh...despiration at its finest. if traveling from the westcoast to the eastcoast to meet someone you been seing online does not spell I AM DESPERATE HELP ME, than I dont know what does..

haha thanks for making my morning

have fun in Florida LMAO HAHAHA

 

[JoeMarron]

It seems women dont really care who they hurt or how much money they cost you. They might even take pleasure in it.

But as men we are supposed to be nice and treat women with respect and women are always saying men are dogs blah blah blah.

men are much better compared to women. women are the true evil.

And guess what made them this way? Dudes that do outrageously supplicating things such as flying across the country for them. Read read and read some more http://www.mts.net/~bpony/djbible/

 

[foreverAFC]

very sad

 

[Masculinity]

It was prob a guy the whole time

Right on the money!

 

[Burroughs]

Indian Race Troll strikes again :crazy:

 

[nismo-4]

It was prob a guy the whole time

And even if it was a girl, hypergamy does not care.

Why would you even go out there anyway for a girl? Anyways, make the most of your time there.

Case closed.

 

[calitoflorida]

"Unbeknown to them, women do this because they are selfish. To avoid their own discomfort they will be polite and accept an invite with absolutely no plans of ever following through."

does the dj bible say anythin about women saying they "they love me" and then not following through. so she is saying she loved me to be polite? this was clearly malicious and cruel.

 

[VladPatton]

Next her. Spin more plates.