Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Book: Way of the Wise Guy.

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I read a good book that has alot of Alpha Male/DJ Traits. It's called Way of the Wise Guy. By FBI Special Agent Joseph Pistone. Who was the Undercover for 6 years in the Mafia as Donnie Brasco. The book has chapters on how a Wiseguy acts in public, how he treats women, how he dresses. ETC.

Not all of the book applies to being an Alpha Male or Don Juan. Such as killing people. But it has alot of good tips. Such as. Wise Guys have no shame. Nothing bothers them. When they walk down the street or into a room, they walk around like they own the place. (The Wise Guy strut.) A Wise Guy is always right. Even when he's wrong. He's always right. How they dress. (Nice, not sloppy. ) ETC. And of course the women. Most mobsters have a wife who they love and have kids with. And a "*****" who they use for sex.

The book even came with a CD of a taped phone conversation Donnie Brasco had with a mobster. You can hear how they talk. And how they talk like they don't take crap from people.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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