Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
what books do you guys recommend
any great reads
any great reads
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
KnockoutJM
Don Juan
"I hope they serve beer in hell" That is by far my favorite book ever read
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
...sounds like a killer
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
I'll second that one. And third it. Its just that good; changed my life.
drummer
Senior Don Juan
Yeah it is defintely life-changing
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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It's funny as hell. This is my favorite quote:
"I immediately walk over and point out my cousin to Fatty, and she almost
knocks me and a random girl over to get to him and give him a
hug. He gives me a look of, "I ****ing hate you, and hope you
immediately die an agonizing death."
Priceless. If any of you brothers want a pdf copy shoot me an email address.
"I immediately walk over and point out my cousin to Fatty, and she almost
knocks me and a random girl over to get to him and give him a
hug. He gives me a look of, "I ****ing hate you, and hope you
immediately die an agonizing death."
Priceless. If any of you brothers want a pdf copy shoot me an email address.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Once again,..
48 Laws of Power. Buy it. Read it. Learn it.
48 Laws of Power. Buy it. Read it. Learn it.
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One more I would strongly suggest to have on hand (and then in mind) is Doctor Paul Dobransky's: King, Warrior, Magician, Lover. It explains succinctly the temperament / relationship between the sexes.
I love psychology. If you can't get it off of Amazon I have the e-book.
I love psychology. If you can't get it off of Amazon I have the e-book.
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anything by Eckhart Tolle
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
blackbelt2k
Senior Don Juan
I really like black comedy books, look up Kurt Voneguith
The two books that have changed my life big time this year, and they aren't like your run-of-the-mill self-help books too 
Think Like A Champion - **** Devenzio
This is an awesome inner game book for athletes. I picked it up when I was going through a tough and frustrating time while playing sports. I wasn't getting along with my teammates and I wasn't getting much playing time either. This book offers advice for these kind of situations. Covers a wide range of topics like trash-talking, politics, leadership, frustration, being a good teammate, and pride in sports. The section about 'acknowledging your fans' had me awestruck when I first read it.
The Dharma of Star Wars - Matthew Bortolin
Some people don't take Star Wars seriously, which is fine. But for those who do, the reward and insight is invaluable. This book talks about the Buddhist elements in the two Star Wars trilogies. I have read so many self-help books and I can say that none of them made me aware of the importance of compassion and not attaching myself to anger or resentment. I am thankful that this book did. Reading this book has lead me into a deeper interest in these themes occurring elsewhere too. For instance, the Matrix trilogy has very similar themes of compassion over hatred... peace over war. It's very fascinating.
Think Like A Champion - **** Devenzio
This is an awesome inner game book for athletes. I picked it up when I was going through a tough and frustrating time while playing sports. I wasn't getting along with my teammates and I wasn't getting much playing time either. This book offers advice for these kind of situations. Covers a wide range of topics like trash-talking, politics, leadership, frustration, being a good teammate, and pride in sports. The section about 'acknowledging your fans' had me awestruck when I first read it.
The Dharma of Star Wars - Matthew Bortolin
Some people don't take Star Wars seriously, which is fine. But for those who do, the reward and insight is invaluable. This book talks about the Buddhist elements in the two Star Wars trilogies. I have read so many self-help books and I can say that none of them made me aware of the importance of compassion and not attaching myself to anger or resentment. I am thankful that this book did. Reading this book has lead me into a deeper interest in these themes occurring elsewhere too. For instance, the Matrix trilogy has very similar themes of compassion over hatred... peace over war. It's very fascinating.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
nice nice, i like some of your tastes
keep em comin
btw, what's this "i hope they serve beer in hell" book about
**note: the books dont have to stick to the topic of getting girls and seduction
but so far its an interesting list
if you're into contemporary writings i recommend the book "Genius" (harold bloom)
anyways keep em comin lol
keep em comin
btw, what's this "i hope they serve beer in hell" book about
**note: the books dont have to stick to the topic of getting girls and seduction
but so far its an interesting list
if you're into contemporary writings i recommend the book "Genius" (harold bloom)
anyways keep em comin lol
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
blackbelt2k said:
black comedy...sounds interesting
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
"I hope they serve beer in hell", written by Tucker Max, is a collection of hilarious, unbelievable stories of a guy's own self-indulgence coupled with his exploits of the female gender....but it's more than that. Really, it's about attitude, confidence, being a man, not taking yourself(or anyone else) so seriously, having fun, and doing things the "Tucker" way(of course we all aren't naturally like him, but his stories just make you want to say "fvck it....I don't care what anyone thinks!"). At least, that is what I got from it!
ValleyDJing
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basbhat said:
Pretty much nailed it. If you want anymore info, here's the intro to his book.
"My name is Tucker Max, and I am an *******.
I get excessively drunk at inappropriate times, disregard social norms, indulge every whim, ignore the consequences of my actions, mock idiots and posers, sleep with more women than is safe or reasonable, and just generally act like a raging ****head.
But, I do contribute to humanity in one very important way. I share my adventures with the world."
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Man, that movie sucked. Psuedo poetic assdribble is all it was.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.