"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I usually hate reading unless I'm very interested in the subject of the book but heres some of my findings that kept me awake, excited, satisfied, and wanting to finish the book..

'Ghost Rider' by Neil Peart. - For those who want to give up (its by one of the greatest drummers out there, and he played them for a fine band called Rush :p )

'Scar Tissue' by Anthony Kiedis. - A very interesting lifestyle and upbringing, I enjoyed this book aloooooot. (its by Red Hot Chili Pepper's singer)

'Tommyland' by Tommy Lee - basically from start to current of Tommy's life, interesting lifestyle as well

'The Game' by Neil Strauss. - Haven't finished yet but I love the book already, how this man got into the Pick Up Artist community and so on.. very interesting ;)

'Double Your Dating' by David DeAngelo. - see title :up:

As you can tell I like auto-biography's and so on but I want to read more and if anyone has any recommendations for books please share them with us!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Read The Fountainhead, man.
 

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Cruel Hoax: Feminism and the new world order: The gesture of a man opening a door for a woman illustrates how men and women relate. We all know that a woman can open a door herself. But when a man does it, he is affirming her femininity, beauty and charm. When she graciously accepts, she is validating his masculine power. This trade, a woman surrendering physical power in exchange for a man's protection (i.e. love) is the essence of heterosexuality. In order to develop emotionally, men and women need this mutual validation as much as sex itself. Sex is an expression of this exclusive contract.

Under the toxic influence of feminism, women open their own doors. Neither sexual identity is validated; neither sex matures emotionally. Men feel redundant and impotent; women feel rejected and unloved."

http://www.cruelhoax.ca/
 

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mastacheef said:
what is it about?
It's about being a MAN.

Written by a WOMAN (Ayn Rand), but it's really GREAT.

Read it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It about an ARCHITECT.

Don't let that turn you off to it.

This novel is ALL about being a MAN.

(There's a movie, too. With freakin' Gary Cooper - he turned down the role of Rhett Butler. He was the hero in High Noon. The movie of The Fountainhead is good, too.)
 

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yeah

Gary Cooper and Patricia Neal.
 

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Joe The Homophobe said:
Under the toxic influence of feminism, women open their own doors. Neither sexual identity is validated; neither sex matures emotionally. Men feel redundant and impotent; women feel rejected and unloved."
This is from Fountainhead? If so, I have to get my hands on this book. Wow. That's pretty much the exact same thought that's been running through my mind ever since I discovered PUA and DJism.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar.

I know I pimp this book a lot on here but its so good its worth it.

If I could I would send free copies of it to every Sosuave member.

The title is self explanatory but to let you know a little bit beyond that it shows how society has become set up to benefit the women over the men, how women manipulate us and why and how they are manipulated themselves by a cruel system to be the way that they are.

Basically it answers a lot of questions that have puzzled many men their whole lives about women because it answers just about every "why did she do this, that or the other thing?" question we have ever had.

Its really an amazing work and the feminists must of thought so as well since a ton of them sent the author death threats after its release.
 

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Self help books are GARBAGE, GARBAGE, GARBAGE.

You can read all the self help books you want. If you don't get out there and learn to get rejected you won't go through the conditioning period and get used to it. Athletes condition, Rock stars condition, Actors condition, what makes you think that you don't have to? To sleep with girls and get game takes time and effort. It's a process and requires work. There is no one magic red pill to swallow like Neo in the matrix and have them magically fall in love with you.
 

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I'm not interested in anti-feminist books depicting the end of society.
Although I may be interested in The Manipulated Man I don't want to read too much into it because I don't want to become all like "W0l\l3N @r3 3V!l_"

How To Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
 

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DonJuan11 said:
You can read all the self help books you want. If you don't get out there and learn to get rejected you won't go through the conditioning period and get used to it. Athletes condition, Rock stars condition, Actors condition, what makes you think that you don't have to? To sleep with girls and get game takes time and effort. It's a process and requires work. There is no one magic red pill to swallow like Neo in the matrix and have them magically fall in love with you.
I couldn't have said it better myself.
 

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DonJuan11 said:
Self help books are GARBAGE, GARBAGE, GARBAGE.

You can read all the self help books you want. If you don't get out there and learn to get rejected you won't go through the conditioning period and get used to it. Athletes condition, Rock stars condition, Actors condition, what makes you think that you don't have to? To sleep with girls and get game takes time and effort. It's a process and requires work. There is no one magic red pill to swallow like Neo in the matrix and have them magically fall in love with you.
I do agree with you but I'm not seeking self help, I'm seeking the knowledge and different view points of others
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SinJester said:
I'm not interested in anti-feminist books depicting the end of society.
Although I may be interested in The Manipulated Man I don't want to read too much into it because I don't want to become all like "W0l\l3N @r3 3V!l_"
Just read the book before passing judgement on it.

To read it is a true enlightenment.

Its not about the end of society but rather how modern society has influenced women in an extremely negative way that causes them to manipulate us for their benefit but what they don't know is that they themselves have been manipulated by a society that is evil to carry out evil that they falsely believe to be good by society and AFCs rewarding them for bad behaviour at almost every conceivable opportunity rather than chastizing them for it.

The book concludes that the ultimate power of ending the viscious cycle of manipulation lies in women as a whole putting a stop to it but the surface benefits and societal reinforcements for bad behaviour make it extremely unlikely massive change for the better will ever occur.

Someone who jumps to conclusions may read a bit of the book and say this book says women are evil but someone who actually reads the whole thing and pays close attention can see that the true message is society is evil and good people should fight against that evil.
 

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Kontroller bear in mind that I once made a threat with criticism about the book that I reccomended :p Is the book by a woman? I am just at a point now where I am sick of anti-femanist pessamists. I'm young and hopefully and happy and niave and I don't want to be told how much society sucks, I want to find that out myself ;)
 

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KontrollerX said:
The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar.
I'm in the process of reading this one myself. I'm about two thirds of the way through it already. It definitely shows some insights, but I wouldn't take everything the book says at face value by any means. For example, the author seems to argue that women do not enjoy sex very much and also that there are few biological distinctions between the sexes.

That said, the Great One is still doing a blog series based on the book so it's probably worthwhile to read. But I'm definitely tryin to analyze it thoroughly and not take everything it says too seriously.
 

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I read the Manip Man. i don't hold it as gospel, but it enlightened me nonetheless. I dont think every woman would fit that mould, but there would be some. i took the book as a warning just in case i ever do bump into a woman like that. oh yea and i read it three times.

i recommend "Into The Wild". fukking fantastic book. i picked that book up and when i put it down it was finished. i read it right there on the floor where i was. my friends thought i was nuts. and then they all wanted to read it, hah!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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