"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Book Disscusion: Rules of the Game

Aenigma

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New book by Neil Strauss out December 18. Post commentary/discussion here.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I saw an interview with Neil and he had a very cute girlfriend. She probably has started playing with his mind..so he feels the need to make some more bank to keep her happy.
 

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picked it up today...its a 2 book set, first one is a "how to" book, basically like a "DJ Bootcamp" and the other one is stories about him in the field i think...ill read it in a little bit.
 
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