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Boners Dancing and Making Out

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1. Is it normal to get a boner when grinding when dancing?
2. Is it normal to get a boner when making out with a chick?
4. Do the chicks mind you having a boner?
 

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Originally posted by 20P02
1. Is it normal to get a boner when grinding when dancing?
Sure
2. Is it normal to get a boner when making out with a chick?
Umm...not for me...but if they REALLY know what theyre doing yeh
4. Do the chicks mind you having a boner?
no
 

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Originally posted by 20P02
1. Is it normal to get a boner when grinding when dancing?
Yes

2. Is it normal to get a boner when making out with a chick?
I did at first, but ig got less exciting and so less stiffy.

4. Do the chicks mind you having a boner?
Depends on the girl. Usually, no.
 

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1. Yes, it shows your a guy.
2. Yes, assuming she is hot and she's turning you on...unless your thinking about what the other guys might be wearing to the pool...
3. In my experience, no, they don't mind. Some like it becuase they can say, "hey, I'm turning this guy on," while others go, "wow, he must like me."
 

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Its normal for the most part, but if its bothering you, learn to control yourself :eek:
 

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While I always thought it was weird getting hard when dancing with a girl, getting a lap dance when your out with the guys at the strip club, etc etc.. but if you think about it, sometimes its kind of weird if you don't get one. The girl might think to herself 'what is this guy gay or something, whats up with him.' Atleast thats what I've felt. To each his own I guess..
 

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As someone who is at the dance club almost every weeekend, I can tell you in my experience that it is completely natural. If you want to have a greater degree of control, you need to have control over your PC (prostate) muscle at the point of the anus. IT is the muscle that when flexed can cut off the flow of urine. If you are taking a pee, flex that muscle and cut of the flow, and you'll have identified the muscle I am referring to. Do flexes with that muscle regularly on a daily basis, aim for 300-500 flex and releases daily, with reps of at least 50, but you may need to start lower.

Another bonus is if you are a guy who likes to release his load and ejaculate, having a well developed muscle will cause you to shoot your load like a rocket ship. You'll be launching it 6 feet accross the room like a cruise missle.
 

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Originally posted by Charm
As someone who is at the dance club almost every weeekend, I can tell you in my experience that it is completely natural. If you want to have a greater degree of control, you need to have control over your PC (prostate) muscle at the point of the anus. IT is the muscle that when flexed can cut off the flow of urine. If you are taking a pee, flex that muscle and cut of the flow, and you'll have identified the muscle I am referring to. Do flexes with that muscle regularly on a daily basis, aim for 300-500 flex and releases daily, with reps of at least 50, but you may need to start lower.

Another bonus is if you are a guy who likes to release his load and ejaculate, having a well developed muscle will cause you to shoot your load like a rocket ship. You'll be launching it 6 feet accross the room like a cruise missle.
And another thing:
If you DON'T want to ejaculate YET, well developed PC muscle can prevent ejaculation from happening, leaving just an orgasm and you may continue your business...

OK. Slipped little off-topic, but it's normal to have an erection while dancing and making out... And I haven't danced or maked out with a girl who complains about it.
Think if you were a chick..
I think that they may even get turned on by that.
 

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Originally posted by Charm
You'll be launching it 6 feet accross the room like a cruise missle.
HAHAHAHAH....that sounds funny.
 

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Kegels (the PC muscle exercise) will not stop erections though, they will only cause you to get MORE erections, that will last for a longer time. If the guy starts doing Kegels when he's dancing it will only make his pants shoot out more.

Not even porn stars can keep their penises from becoming erect.

And flexing your PC muscle to interupt ejaculation is widely publicized, but nearly impossible in practice, the timing is key, too early and you will actually cause yourself to ejeculate, because the tensing of PC muscles can also induce ejaculation. Hence the "pumping" or "throbbing" action flexing your PC muscles induce. Doing it too late has no effect. Even if you have "practiced" and "exercised" very very very very few men have the ability to completely control ejaculation. This is the major reason why you see the same guys in all the porno movies.

What PC exercises will do is promote general prostate health, help you have more body shaking orgasms, harder erections, and recover from orgasm faster. As for interupting ejaculation midstream that is neither healthy nor worth it, as male orgasms without ejaculation are not as satisfy as with them.
 

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Answers, then a question

1. Pretty normal, most chicks are okay with it at least in moderation. I've asked a few girls about this. Some say they don't care. One girl I talked about this with said it's okay for a little while, but after a while it "gets old" and they want you to "get that out of here." How they expect us to "get that out" of anywhere is unknown...

2. Yes. They're cool with it.

3. See above.

QUESTION: I'll often get a boner while making out on the couch, but at the movies the other day she put her hand in my pants, and I was trying to get a full erection but no luck! It was only half way there. What's the deal? Anyone have a similar experience?
 

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Originally posted by Hot Ice
Think if you were a chick..
I think that they may even get turned on by that.
mine does... hehehe

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hmmm, btw is it just me, or did i miss #3?
 

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Heh about 3 years ago I read a post on another MB by a guy saying that one time a HB sat on his lap, and he got a boner, and when she felt it poking her butt she slapped him. Wacko.
 
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