"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lol.. I'm an ass..

Anyways I'm at the trainstation, good looking girl, about a 7-7.5 walks past me and stands up a few feet from me, so i notice her looking at me. I look at her back, but for some reason I couldn't get myself to smile at her ( I don't smile that much to begin with) So I was just looking her in the eyes and since i didn't smile I looked elsewhere but our eyes met up again. So i raised my eyebrows at her and she kept looking at me this time, even after i turned to look n see if the train was coming. But I didn't go up to her or nothing so she just turned around and walked away...

I feel a bit stupid because if i was gonna bomb I should had at least have a better reason than just not saying anything.. don't know what it is but I need to work on something.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by BxPrince24
don't know what it is but I need to work on something.
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fear

he who hesitates, masturbates

what you need to practise is approaching girls

i highly recommend the DJ Bootcamp. check the bible
 
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Hesitation is your worst enemy...(in terms of approach) if a girls sees you hesitating; she'll very likely give you the cold shoulder when you approach her.. So DON'T DO IT!!!
 
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All I am gonna say here is, always use the 3 second rule.
 
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Approach anxiety happens to the best of us. Think about it this way (sounds like you were in a subway)- Who's around or who's gonna care if you bomb? Are you ever going to see this woman again? Even if you walk up to here and say 'may I insert my penis into you' what will it do but improve your game?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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