"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BxPrince24

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lol.. I'm an ass..

Anyways I'm at the trainstation, good looking girl, about a 7-7.5 walks past me and stands up a few feet from me, so i notice her looking at me. I look at her back, but for some reason I couldn't get myself to smile at her ( I don't smile that much to begin with) So I was just looking her in the eyes and since i didn't smile I looked elsewhere but our eyes met up again. So i raised my eyebrows at her and she kept looking at me this time, even after i turned to look n see if the train was coming. But I didn't go up to her or nothing so she just turned around and walked away...

I feel a bit stupid because if i was gonna bomb I should had at least have a better reason than just not saying anything.. don't know what it is but I need to work on something.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mr. Debonaire

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Originally posted by BxPrince24
don't know what it is but I need to work on something.
fear

he who hesitates, masturbates

what you need to practise is approaching girls

i highly recommend the DJ Bootcamp. check the bible
 

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yep....
Hesitation is your worst enemy...(in terms of approach) if a girls sees you hesitating; she'll very likely give you the cold shoulder when you approach her.. So DON'T DO IT!!!
 

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All I am gonna say here is, always use the 3 second rule.
 

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Approach anxiety happens to the best of us. Think about it this way (sounds like you were in a subway)- Who's around or who's gonna care if you bomb? Are you ever going to see this woman again? Even if you walk up to here and say 'may I insert my penis into you' what will it do but improve your game?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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