People think that women are "attracted to bad boys". women don't give a **** about thugs. the thing that attracts women to thugs, is the same thing that attracts women to say, a successful entrepreneur. That sense of confidence, that only comes from living life if that makes sense.
The avg successful drug dealer, buys kilo's of drugs at a time, or at least ounces, if you are dealing with hard drugs, you've been shot at, you've probably shot at someone before, i had one drug dealer I dealt with that was so paranoid, that everytime i knocked on his door I had a 45 pointed at my head. You have deal with life, tough life, and you think, at the end of the day, talking to a woman is a big deal? That's just something you do.
So what I am sayings, I'm not telling you how to bE bold, i'm changeling the premise of the question. What I mean by that, is,
don't ask yourself how to be bold enough to talk to women... ask yourself why your lie is so dull, that it takes boldness to talk to women in the first place. That's, the real question you should be asking yourself.
It does not take boldness, or techniques or any of that **** to go up to a pretty woman say "hey look, I saw you over there, and i 'll cut to the chase, i think you are fine as hell and I want to talk you out, give me your number".
Men's greatest problem when it comes with women is not feminism, or bad looks or lack of money, or even lack of game, it's lack of perspective. They have nothing going in their lifes, and put too much pressure on themselves when it comes to women to make up for it. Talking to women is not hard.
When I was 17 years old i remember one day I went to star bucks, random day, and just bought some books off the book rack off the clearest sale. A book on programming, few other random books. I remember thinking to myself, how cool everyone there was and how smart everyone there looked, and I wanted to be smart too.
I remember when I was 20, about to be 21, I wanted to get out the office one day, i went to that same starbucks and setup shop. I remember seeing a pretty woman there, by herself and I wanted to talk to her, but was so scared ****less I didn't think twice about it. I remember looking around at all the people in suits and thinking they must all be important people.
7 years later, after living my life to the fullest and all that entails, the ups and the downs, I went to Barnes and noble about a month ago, to get a strawberry lemonade frap for my son, I remember seeing... basically the same scene as I saw 8 years ago, but through a different lens. I remember seeing the guy pretending to work while looking at women passing. I remember looking at the 18-20 year old kids, "working", with the arrogance of someone who hasn't been smacked in the face by life yet, like they had the world by the balls and their homework was the most important thing in the world. I remember looking at a guy drinking some coffee, with a worn down suit on, with bad body posture, reading the wall street journal, just like this was one of 488494 days that he does this same tired routine. I remember looking at this older woman, in a suit, who was "worrying" yet was clearly there to be chased or seen. She scoped out every guy there, you can tell she was waiting to be hit on. I remember I looked at that woman dead in the eye and got flush red lol and turned away. she was caught lol.
People who don't make anything of themselves and who dont' live for something and who don't chase dreams, and who don't stand for something, worry about **** like approaching, or being caught staring, or what exact words do I say if she does X but doesn't do Y, or worry about her noticing her body language when you approach her and all that ****. My answer is simply, live life to the fullest.
Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy. ~ Dale Carnegie
