"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Boinked my housemate ..

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HI Gents

Boinked my housemate - pretty straightfoward , live with 2 girls , 2 other guys , boinked one of the girls

I was pretty drunk

However might not be bad to turn this into a regular thing

Thoughts/ Ideas/input ?

I am aware it could blow up in my face
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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More back story

Might help if I gave more info
Thought this chick was pretty cool , been looking for a chance to escalate - living together for a year , been here a month
Last night everyone was drinking , we ended up alone and I took my chance and it worked , she put up resistance but then capitulated a lot really quickly
At 5 am she went to her room , kept saying this won't happen again I was pretty much like , if it happened once hats stopping it happen again
I went travelling for the day , when I got home saw her and acted pretty normal , she didn't seem to cheerful but could be reading into it
Now this chick is cool and would be a good plate , she called me a player
But we live together

Could do with some input on this
 
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She fvcked you because you are a player, its very attractive to women. Act cool and play it like nothing happened. She is glad you did the deed the with her.
 
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mangotot said:
She fvcked you because you are a player, its very attractive to women. Act cool and play it like nothing happened. She is glad you did the deed the with her.
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This made me happy

Got any good hangover cures ? I'm literally dying
 
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countwoofoolah said:
This made me happy

Got any good hangover cures ? I'm literally dying
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Don't know, I don't drink alcohol.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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In college, one of my housemates banged one of our female housemates. It ruined the house.

You described her as a plate - so I am assuming you intend to have other plates. If that's the case, why on earth would you want to have a plate LIVE WITH YOU? She's there where you eat, sleep, and presumably bang other plates.

How do you think this is going to go, count? When things go bad with a woman, at least you have your home to retreat to. If sh!t gets weird with this one, you have no escape. You will just sit and marinate in drama all day, every day. Not exactly how a 23 year old dude should be living his life.

By the way, in my housemate story, the guy knocked up the girl. The pro-life/pro-choice debate basically took over our home right up until she got the abortion.

I moved out.
 
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In college, one of my housemates banged one of our female housemates. It ruined the house.

You described her as a plate - so I am assuming you intend to have other plates. If that's the case, why on earth would you want to have a plate LIVE WITH YOU? She's there where you eat, sleep, and presumably bang other plates.

How do you think this is going to go, count? When things go bad with a woman, at least you have your home to retreat to. If sh!t gets weird with this one, you have no escape. You will just sit and marinate in drama all day, every day. Not exactly how a 23 year old dude should be living his life.

By the way, in my housemate story, the guy knocked up the girl. The pro-life/pro-choice debate basically took over our home right up until she got the abortion.

I moved out.
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This may have opened my eyes a bit ...

So advice is dont do her again and pretty much forget it happened ?
 
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Not a great idea. Might seem good now but on the long run it will be wierd. Dont **** where you eat keep it in mind.
 
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countwoofoolah said:
Ok so an update

looks like we are both acting like adults and ignoring it

best possible outcome ?
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Exactly continue being an adult about it and carry on as if it never happened. If something needs to happen it will. :rockon:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yeah, be careful. When things go south, the aftermath will remain in your home. You'll be forced to look at her mug when you wake up in the morning and before you go to bed at night. You'll be forced to listen to her moans while she's getting her brains screwed out by the guy she picked up at the bar or online etc.

You're probably capable of detaching yourself emotionally but she might not be which will bring additional drama to any future woman you bring into the house with you.
 
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When things go bad with a woman, at least you have your home to retreat to. If sh!t gets weird with this one, you have no escape. You will just sit and marinate in drama all day, every day. Not exactly how a 23 year old dude should be living his life.








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