"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BodyFat Calipers

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Hi all,

Just purchased the cheapest bodyfat caliper I could find. From what I hear this one is a good hobby caliper and it usually retails for $25 or so. I got it for $8 on ebay with S&H included. Check it out: http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=3678892474

Bodybuilding.com has it cheap as well but you can't beat ebay for price. It's $4.75 + S&H which is $3.50 I think so $8.25 total.

Wanna help out my fellow lifters out there :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That's the same one I use. It takes a bit of practice but once you get it down those calipers are great!
 

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Yeah, I heard you guys saying it's a good for everyday use so I purchased it. Waiting for it to come in the mail anytime this week. Hoping it will come with proper procedures for measuring bodyfat and the locations that give the bodyfat more accurately.
 

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I would think the directions come with it, but if not I can help you out.
 

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Alright, I'll let you know when it arrives.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just FYI... most people have a higher bodyfat percentage than they think :p
 

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Ok, I received the caliper today. It's plastic... shouldn't it be metal? For some reason I was left with the impression that it was metal.

Anyway, it came with simple instructions. It says to measure on the right side, 1" above the hip. It says to pinch the skin and press the caliper until the little ball thingy snaps into place. Well, I followed the instructions as well as I could and ended up with 20% bodyfat, which seems about right.

I'm curious, does it matter the length of skin you pinch?

Is that how you measure your bodyfat with that caliper? Is there a more accurate way to do it; i.e. a different location for measuring?
 

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Fly guy will reply to you, but there's a 7 point method where you "pinch the skin" at many different points. This will give you a much better measurement.
 

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Sorry for the delay, I've been extremely busy lately.

I'm curious, does it matter the length of skin you pinch?
Just grab enough skin to pull it away from your body. Maybe an inch or so of skin should be fine unless you've got a higher bodyfat percentage.

Is that how you measure your bodyfat with that caliper? Is there a more accurate way to do it; i.e. a different location for measuring?
There is a more accurate method (called the 9 site Parillo method) that will probably require the help of a friend/girlfriend/family member. Its more difficult but if you want accuracy its the best way:

Measure these sites:
Right bicep
Right tricep
Right pec (on the very edge of the pec muscle)
Stomach (next to your belly-button)
Suprailiac (1 inch above hip bone)
Upper thigh (about 5 inches below the hip bone)
Calf

These two probably require assistance to measure:
Lower back (where your "love handles" are)
Upper back (between your shoulder blade and your spinal chord)

Now add the 9 measurements up and divide it by your weight in pounds. Multiply the result by 27 and you will have your percentage of body fat.

I will try to post up a diagram of the different sites.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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