"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Body Tattoos can increase you chances of getting laid?
- Thread starter DJnoob
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
"Hey guys, I'm thinking about getting myself a tatoo except I can't figure out which one I want... which do you think I should get? One that says "Bad Boy" or one that says "Closet Homo"?
i think it's more about who you are than what you wear or if you have tatoos or not, i send plenty of guys who wear lot's of cool gear but they have no game, if you get yourself a tatoo, see if you can build a story around it, that way you've always got one more thing to talk about and to open conversations with
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Can't agree more with you man !!!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
tigre
Don Juan
cactus3178
Senior Don Juan
They've never worked against me, and hell, I've got one on my chest, both wrists/forearms, my right arm, my left hand's fingers, right hand, and my ankle.
But, it's all good work, nothing getto like some I've seen.
In my experience, it's always been a good convo starter.
EDIT:
As a side note, I should add, if anybody's thinking about getting some ink, do think about it first....it does pretty much stay for life.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Each sleeve set me back about 5k each & pieces on my neck, stomach & legs has cost a pretty penny...But having quality work that flows well is the key.
Go big or go home! :rockon: