Body Launguge Question

[zerocelcius]

Girl is acting diffrent and says nothing is wrong. But we all know, they won't tell us what is going on, cause they expect us to know with out them telling us.

She isn't keepig eye contact, seems a little stand-offish, and I can hear a little distain in her voice. I wrote it off as her being in a weird mood until she said "Thanks for allowing me to join you for dinner." (no laugh)

Than at dinner she looked at her phone and I knew she was checking for text messages which told me she had her ringer off. THan asked me what time it was. I said didn't you just look at the time when you looked at your phone. She said no I was looking for a text message. She said her phone was messing up today and wasn't ringing. But here is the deal I called her and it rang?!

WHAT do you guys think?

 

[Create Reality]

Hmmm

Well first off why you doing a Dinner date? Have you been seeing her a while?

Tell her she's acting funny. Gauge her response.

Next time you see her.... Run up in front of her with your hand held out in a "STOP" motion, and when you have her attention start dancing!

 

[Boner da Stoner]

your going to get a lot of responses from "what do I think"

some people are just erratic, I know my phone is analog(so no time telling phone) if I am on another call I get voice message, in bad reception places my phone doesn't work either. I hope your not asking about the phone... could be hundreds of different things.

HAHHAHAHHAHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHA!!! (no joke... )"thanks for allowing me to join you for dinner"

I would have taken that and thrown it straight back at her

"you owe me now!!!"

You are a hardcore, certified AFC wussay mamas boy if you don't know what a girl can do for you... hmmmm

whatever you do try to keep her on the light side, she seems like she is scared of something, either you, her past, or BOYFRIEND(I don't know how you got her to date you)

 

[zerocelcius]

Originally posted by Create Reality
Hmmm

Well first off why you doing a Dinner date? Have you been seeing her a while?

Tell her she's acting funny. Gauge her response.

Next time you see her.... Run up in front of her with your hand held out in a "STOP" motion, and when you have her attention start dancing!

we have been going together for almost 6 months.

Dancing is a good Idea!

 

[zerocelcius]

Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
your going to get a lot of responses from "what do I think"

some people are just erratic, I know my phone is analog(so no time telling phone) if I am on another call I get voice message, in bad reception places my phone doesn't work either. I hope your not asking about the phone... could be hundreds of different things.

HAHHAHAHHAHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHA!!! (no joke... )"thanks for allowing me to join you for dinner"

I would have taken that and thrown it straight back at her

"you owe me now!!!"

You are a hardcore, certified AFC wussay mamas boy if you don't know what a girl can do for you... hmmmm

whatever you do try to keep her on the light side, she seems like she is scared of something, either you, her past, or BOYFRIEND(I don't know how you got her to date you)

I know her phone it tells time, but she was checking for text messages and her phone you can set so when you don't wont it to ring it will just pop up on the screen. But no the question wasn't about her phone it was why would she be expecting a text and than say the ringer didn't work when I called her and the ringer worked.

I like the "you Owe me now!!"

I don't know what you are saying with "what the girl can do for you"

being scared isn't her nature although she may be upset about some things i have done and she is acting defensivly, but her boyfriend is me.

i know How I got her to date me I asked her out ... ??!!

Thanks for the replies.

 

[zerocelcius]

some more info:

I work and go to school now. Whe we met we had more time to hang out, but since I do both I hardly have time. The time I do have goes to homework, music, or I am just tired.

So I have cut the time we spend together a lot.

 

[Boner da Stoner]

with "what the girl can do for you"

you got to tell her what she owes you after that sentence of something only a girl can do, only a man can date a girl.

Okay so she's your girlfriend... that means a lot more to me than just a girl....

The cell phone ruse could be any number of problems. Since the two of you are going out you just keep staying on top of it... I know when I was on vacation I got text messaging on my phone from the digital system and I was addicted.

It's easy to use the text stuff cause it's quiet and discrete.