"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok strange topic, but...

i really need to work on my body language/facial expressions, etc. when it comes to women. i have been working on getting over my shyness, etc. a lot lately and so far good progress. i notice that my facial expressions get all weird (looking like i am a little sad or mad but in reality i'm not) and that i don't really know how all of this body language stuff works (as strange as it may be). i've been trying to practice smiling more even if it's not genuine but i feel like it's all cheesy. how do you guys practice this sort of stuff? i'm thinking about just practicing every day in front of the mirror with this.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Most people should agree with me when I say the BEST practice is to approach with the body language you are hoping to convey.

If they can't read your language, or don't read it properly, than you are doing something wrong. Apply the tactic again, and continue practicing in the field.
 

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I know what you mean, 2 girls pointed commented that my facial expression isn't there. They never know if I'm mad or not and some of my friends says the same. I then one day froze my facial expression on the bus one time and when I got home I looked in the mirror only to see that I put on a face as if I want to fight someone.

One way that helpped me improve is the frame that I set when I'm in a set I always make try hard facial expression that seem natural, that way my face isn't blank. So far its been going real good.
 

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Take body language from the guys who do it best; actors. Brad Pitt, George Clooney, Johnny Depp. It's not just good looks that get them the ladies, it's their body language and facial expressions.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Distant Light said:
One way that helpped me improve is the frame that I set when I'm in a set I always make try hard facial expression that seem natural, that way my face isn't blank. So far its been going real good.
If you keep sarging wil you change your words from "so far it's been good" into something else?

What people understand from what you THINK is through your body language. The truth goes a little deeper than that. It is what you think, HOW you think, and the WAY you think, that influence what you reveal about what you think.

If you have two thoughts going through your mind, and one must be kept a secret, the unexperienced mind will show the signs of an unexperienced person. ALWAYS know when to show somebody respect, and tell them the truth that you are inexperienced when you are busted. One of the secrets of the game are to let people in on a littlse secret, MOST of the time, the secret is that you MAY have been wrong.
 
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