I was at a party yesterday and my ex girl was there, i still had feeelings for her, but its not like i afc'd it or anything, but i noticed the whole time her body orientation was towards me, so i figured maybe theres still somthing there, so when i asked if we could hangout next week she was like " i have tennis" which is basically a nice way of saying no... so i guess im confused why there would be favorable orientation signals but i duno...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Body language with ex
- Thread starter RIchardo
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