"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Body language tips for conveying sexual interest?

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A few of the girls I slept with, I just had a feeling they were sexually interested. I went for 'em cause my gut told me to. I'd notice little things they did, that did something to me. I couldn't say exactly what it was, I just had a feeling.

The net is full of "if she does this she likes you, if she does that she doesn't", all sort of derivative and not as accurate as they claim. It's hard to find material on how to convey sexual/flirting body language. What about things we can do as guys to create a little tension to a female we are into?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I like to lean back and spread my legs a little bit, hahah it feels so gay typing that, but for me its just advertising the fact I have a c0ck and I'm here to use it. Be relaxed, not fidgety, lean back, shoulders back, open up your chest and let her get a nice full view of the confidence you're radiating.

A few years ago when this magazine cover came out people (women of course) were up in arms about how it was some reference to Lewinsky; bullsh!t, I'm sure those old hags would have blown Bill in a heartbeat.

I don't think you have to be sexual, but be comfortable and exude confidence via your body language, supplement that with kino and innuendo and wether she knows it or not, she'll be affected by it.
 
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eye contact is very important, gazing into her left eye to hypnotize her inner sex demon while
imagining you're having your way with her... I use it and it works.
 
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By Default i assume you will be leaving body language signs, if you are interested in some female.
One of the important things is eye contact and body posture. which tells her you are confident.
 
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You shouldnt worry about this stuff. Why? Because its natural, its instinctual.



The thing you should worry about is your state of mind. If you feel like a pussy around women, then you will accordingly send unconscious signals which tell women that you are afraid of them.



And if you feel like a man, powerful and dominant, well.. do the math yourself.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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