"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Body Language tip

TDOT

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It has been said that on average, girls are about 20 times or so better at reading body language than guys are. They know when you are checking them out even if you try and do it on the sly. So here's a tip I discovered one day while sitting in sociology class. Don't even try to check out a girl unless you are actually engaged in a conversation with her. Look disinterested. In order to do this. Stare at the wall. Look at one spot on it forever. Study that one spot. Focus your attention on a little dent or bump in that certain area. Just like they know when you are checking them out they will know when you are not also.
Now this starts to bother the heck out of them. They begin to wonder, is he gay, is he just not interested in me, does he have something heavy on his mind, is he really that more interested in the wall than me. This builds their mysterious perception of you and probably may even cause them to make the first move in the approach. You may even notice them start to move in a way so as to pull attention towards them and away from your weird fixation on the wall.

:confused:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lifeforce

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Have you actually had any success with this one?

I'd do the complete opposite, do some playful flirting to see if she's interested. If you show no interest she'll just assume you're not interested.
 

tactic

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lol just because you show disinterest towards a girl doesn't mean she will try to approach you.. you have to show interest at first then show disinterest, that's how she would get herself thinking.
 

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I game everything above HB7 and if she isnt interested I move on the to next :D . TDOT, I know for a fact that it doesnt work I spent most of my teens not checking out women becuase I was shy. did that floor their interest in me, NO! It just made them think I wasnt interested in them. Unless your some super Hot guy that every girl wants to be with, I dont see it working
 

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You keep staring at that wall, best of luck with that.

BIBLE!! :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TDOT

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Hey they can't all be winners :)

I know its a bit of an esoteric tip.
I try though.

Like someone else said this might work if the girl already has a strong interest in you.
 

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You gotta make sure they know youre interested first right...the indifference comes into play...

staring at a wall does seem dumb tho..
 

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Originally posted by TDOT
It has been said that on average, girls are about 20 times or so better at reading body language than guys are. They know when you are checking them out even if you try and do it on the sly. So here's a tip I discovered one day while sitting in sociology class. Don't even try to check out a girl unless you are actually engaged in a conversation with her. Look disinterested. In order to do this. Stare at the wall. Look at one spot on it forever. Study that one spot. Focus your attention on a little dent or bump in that certain area. Just like they know when you are checking them out they will know when you are not also.
Now this starts to bother the heck out of them. They begin to wonder, is he gay, is he just not interested in me, does he have something heavy on his mind, is he really that more interested in the wall than me. This builds their mysterious perception of you and probably may even cause them to make the first move in the approach. You may even notice them start to move in a way so as to pull attention towards them and away from your weird fixation on the wall.

:confused:
You do that and as Biggie Small said "as soon as you buy that wine I'll just sneak up from behind". Stop trying to find intellectual ways to be a coward. If you want to check her out check her out and if she ask what are you doing say Im checking you out. Simple
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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NotaGoatLover

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Re: Re: Body Language tip

Originally posted by Royal Elite
If you want to check her out check her out and if she ask what are you doing say Im checking you out. Simple
I like....... i'm gonna use it :p
 
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