"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It has been said that on average, girls are about 20 times or so better at reading body language than guys are. They know when you are checking them out even if you try and do it on the sly. So here's a tip I discovered one day while sitting in sociology class. Don't even try to check out a girl unless you are actually engaged in a conversation with her. Look disinterested. In order to do this. Stare at the wall. Look at one spot on it forever. Study that one spot. Focus your attention on a little dent or bump in that certain area. Just like they know when you are checking them out they will know when you are not also.
Now this starts to bother the heck out of them. They begin to wonder, is he gay, is he just not interested in me, does he have something heavy on his mind, is he really that more interested in the wall than me. This builds their mysterious perception of you and probably may even cause them to make the first move in the approach. You may even notice them start to move in a way so as to pull attention towards them and away from your weird fixation on the wall.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Have you actually had any success with this one?

I'd do the complete opposite, do some playful flirting to see if she's interested. If you show no interest she'll just assume you're not interested.
 
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lol just because you show disinterest towards a girl doesn't mean she will try to approach you.. you have to show interest at first then show disinterest, that's how she would get herself thinking.
 
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I game everything above HB7 and if she isnt interested I move on the to next :D . TDOT, I know for a fact that it doesnt work I spent most of my teens not checking out women becuase I was shy. did that floor their interest in me, NO! It just made them think I wasnt interested in them. Unless your some super Hot guy that every girl wants to be with, I dont see it working
 
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You keep staring at that wall, best of luck with that.

BIBLE!! :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey they can't all be winners :)

I know its a bit of an esoteric tip.
I try though.

Like someone else said this might work if the girl already has a strong interest in you.
 
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You gotta make sure they know youre interested first right...the indifference comes into play...

staring at a wall does seem dumb tho..
 
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Originally posted by TDOT
It has been said that on average, girls are about 20 times or so better at reading body language than guys are. They know when you are checking them out even if you try and do it on the sly. So here's a tip I discovered one day while sitting in sociology class. Don't even try to check out a girl unless you are actually engaged in a conversation with her. Look disinterested. In order to do this. Stare at the wall. Look at one spot on it forever. Study that one spot. Focus your attention on a little dent or bump in that certain area. Just like they know when you are checking them out they will know when you are not also.
Now this starts to bother the heck out of them. They begin to wonder, is he gay, is he just not interested in me, does he have something heavy on his mind, is he really that more interested in the wall than me. This builds their mysterious perception of you and probably may even cause them to make the first move in the approach. You may even notice them start to move in a way so as to pull attention towards them and away from your weird fixation on the wall.

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You do that and as Biggie Small said "as soon as you buy that wine I'll just sneak up from behind". Stop trying to find intellectual ways to be a coward. If you want to check her out check her out and if she ask what are you doing say Im checking you out. Simple
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Re: Re: Body Language tip

Originally posted by Royal Elite
If you want to check her out check her out and if she ask what are you doing say Im checking you out. Simple
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I like....... i'm gonna use it :p
 
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