body language? see me as too serious....

[El Don]

I never really had alot of success with women, I have had girls like me and all but at the time I just was never into them. So I know that I can get them and I dont look bad. Only thing I noticed is that people say I always have a serious face or look mad or something thats not happy. Im trying to figure out if this really is the case and plays a big factor with most of the girls I meet. I honestly am not really mad at anyone and don't know why people say I looked pissed all the time or have this serious face....its just the way I look.

I laugh sometimes like at work for example and to me I feel like I am showing that I am happy and am having a good time but people have still told me about this look I have. This cant possibly mean that I ALWAYS have to be with a constant smile on my face does it? I always just thought I had a normal look but apparently it seriouis or mad. Is there some way I can work on this? because its not something I feel I intentionally do and I dont want it to be the reason more girls dont approach me or gives women the idea "somethings always wrong with this guy" and they get with someone else and lose initial attraction in me. This seems to be the case almost all the time with me. I get a lot of signs of interest from them and then I feel that they lose the attraction fast because of this. Any help would be appreciated

 

[oneboy21]

you have to be relaxed buddy,
beign serious while talking to a girl is a good thing, which shows tht u have good personality and maintain eye contact while serious

try practicing some fake smiles it will help you and you will ger cured of your own problem

 

[DasaniWater]

wow, this is exactly what people tell me. i mean exactly. in fact, even when i laugh and all, my friend still tells me i look pissed off. even my gf once said thqat i looked like i was about to cry. i mean i dont understand it either. say im at a group of table, and im there listening to someone, they think im like pissed off at them or something. i always get the wrong response from them. i sometimes wonder too what i need to do to make myself seem happy, like do i have to always have a smile on my face? i relax and all, but something about my face seems so stiff i dunno... and when i smile i guess it looks so fake or i stil look mad if u find out the naswer to this tell me

 

[brenbaus]

i had this problem for awhile, but at my current job i have learned to smile when talking to customers ( I work retail to help put myself through college) because people will respond more positivly when you have a smile on your face. The best way to keep that smile on your face is to joke around with your co-workers and flirt with the ladies (customers mostly) this will keep your attitude positive and make you look more friendly

 

[RaWBLooD]

I never really had alot of success with women, I have had girls like me and all but at the time I just was never into them. So I know that I can get them and I dont look bad. Only thing I noticed is that people say I always have a serious face or look mad or something thats not happy. Im trying to figure out if this really is the case and plays a big factor with most of the girls I meet. I honestly am not really mad at anyone and don't know why people say I looked pissed all the time or have this serious face....its just the way I look.

I laugh sometimes like at work for example and to me I feel like I am showing that I am happy and am having a good time but people have still told me about this look I have. This cant possibly mean that I ALWAYS have to be with a constant smile on my face does it? I always just thought I had a normal look but apparently it seriouis or mad. Is there some way I can work on this? because its not something I feel I intentionally do and I dont want it to be the reason more girls dont approach me or gives women the idea "somethings always wrong with this guy" and they get with someone else and lose initial attraction in me. This seems to be the case almost all the time with me. I get a lot of signs of interest from them and then I feel that they lose the attraction fast because of this. Any help would be appreciated

the problem is you care too much.

 

[El Don]

do you think you could elaborate? you mean I care to much about how people see me? or care about everything in general? I just want to know what people think

 

[Tomatoes]

To ber fair people say i look depressed sometimes.....I just get stoned then I look mellowed out....

 

[oneboy21]

People whoare woking can do a small excercise,
keep a mirror near by you and practice smiling by seeing the mirror
it is proved by theory in real life