"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Body Language - Head Tilt
- Thread starter lakeshore
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
i assume your left.Ease said:
body language is fairly interesting. The more you read about it, the more you notice little details when interacting with other people.
Not always easy or possible to interpret correctly but it does make you pay attention which leads to more meaningful interactions with people i believe.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Here you go. btw, i'm in no way affiliated with this site but they have some free articles and what not.Penalty said:
http://www.bodylanguageuniversity.com/public/department27.cfm
I mean, there is a KIND of logic to the this head tilting but the article isn't exactly verbose on the topic, it is 5 lines longs and says "recent studies demonstrate"
I would ask the people involved in the article:
what studies?
who did the studies?
is it peer-reviewed?
has the data been misunderstood?
All imporant questions.
It is still an interesting find, nice work
I hear what you're saying. Too often we see something online and assume its fact. Its good to ask questions.Penalty said:hey, thanks for the source lakeshore
I mean, there is a KIND of logic to the this head tilting but the article isn't exactly verbose on the topic, it is 5 lines longs and says "recent studies demonstrate"
I would ask the people involved in the article:
what studies?
who did the studies?
is it peer-reviewed?
has the data been misunderstood?
All imporant questions.
It is still an interesting find, nice work
Tilting to the right has been associated with listening and being interested in what the other person is saying I believe. This makes sense as I catch myself doing it when "genuinely" interested in what the other is saying.
The tilting to the left seems more of like a "cute" gesture. Like kind of a warm, mesmerized feeling you get around that person. If she is sitting with her head tilted to the left and you notice her toes/foot lift up and point up she without a doubt likes you. (based on what i've read, this means they are experiencing something positive, i've caught myself doing that also)
Another link that mentions head tilt near the middle of the article.
http://www.kevinhogan.com/bodylanguage1.htm
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.