"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Body Language - Head Tilt
- Thread starter lakeshore
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
i assume your left.Ease said:
body language is fairly interesting. The more you read about it, the more you notice little details when interacting with other people.
Not always easy or possible to interpret correctly but it does make you pay attention which leads to more meaningful interactions with people i believe.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Here you go. btw, i'm in no way affiliated with this site but they have some free articles and what not.Penalty said:
http://www.bodylanguageuniversity.com/public/department27.cfm
I mean, there is a KIND of logic to the this head tilting but the article isn't exactly verbose on the topic, it is 5 lines longs and says "recent studies demonstrate"
I would ask the people involved in the article:
what studies?
who did the studies?
is it peer-reviewed?
has the data been misunderstood?
All imporant questions.
It is still an interesting find, nice work
I hear what you're saying. Too often we see something online and assume its fact. Its good to ask questions.Penalty said:hey, thanks for the source lakeshore
I mean, there is a KIND of logic to the this head tilting but the article isn't exactly verbose on the topic, it is 5 lines longs and says "recent studies demonstrate"
I would ask the people involved in the article:
what studies?
who did the studies?
is it peer-reviewed?
has the data been misunderstood?
All imporant questions.
It is still an interesting find, nice work
Tilting to the right has been associated with listening and being interested in what the other person is saying I believe. This makes sense as I catch myself doing it when "genuinely" interested in what the other is saying.
The tilting to the left seems more of like a "cute" gesture. Like kind of a warm, mesmerized feeling you get around that person. If she is sitting with her head tilted to the left and you notice her toes/foot lift up and point up she without a doubt likes you. (based on what i've read, this means they are experiencing something positive, i've caught myself doing that also)
Another link that mentions head tilt near the middle of the article.
http://www.kevinhogan.com/bodylanguage1.htm
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.