"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Body language, covering up chest.

rrrrr

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What is everyone's opinion on this. I was in a 3 way conversation, she was talking to someone else, I was watching her face while she talked, she looks at me, takes her jacket and covers her chest and looks back at the other person she was talking to.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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rrrrr said:
What is everyone's opinion on this. I was in a 3 way conversation, she was talking to someone else, I was watching her face while she talked, she looks at me, takes her jacket and covers her chest and looks back at the other person she was talking to.
you think women are dense?

they only do this honestly for one reason. how often were the eyes drifting? be honest.
 

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I get this once in a while too.

It can be caused by a few things IMO. Could be one or more of the following...

1. If you are a shy guy who doesn't make good eye contact and sort of looks down instead. (She unconsciously or consciously thinks you're looking at her boobs even if you aren't.)

2. You are uncomfortable and/or intimidated by her and giving off a subtle creepy vibe.

3. She has zero attraction for you but "senses" you are attracted to her so she is covering the goods as a sign of no interest.
 
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