"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So I wanted to use the bathroon today but I noticed that the lights are on and the door is closed. So I open the door real slow in case anyone was there, and it turns out of my housemates female friends was in the bathroom brushing her hair. She gives me a dirty look and says 'can you knock before opening the door???' in a rude tone. I then blurt out 'the door wasn't locked. . .sorry'.
If I should've kept my cool and said with a smirk 'sure thing, but if you don't want anyone comming in, i highly suggest you lock the door'.

I've been in this situation many times. All of them could've been handled better if I had not been in a rush to say something and just kept my cool.
Then it hit me, each morning i'll make a body language check list, and keep it in mind throughout the day.

My list is:

1.Never lose your cool
2. Take things slow and calm, never be in rush to say anything
3. Talk with my deep voice
4. Always be aware of your suroundings, be and look alert
5. Don't take crap from anyone.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have been thinking about this, like a list to refresh my memory of my pimplikeness. I have a feeling you were thinking about it later like "damn, why didn't I say that"

But don't sweat it..realize how funny it is.

For example, if she's in there brushing her hair again, do the same thing, but on purpose. Open the door, walk past her, go to the toilet, lift up the seat, pull your pants down to your ankles, then sit down, and look at her like "why are you watching me?"

I don't know how to really put this, but a good thing to do to make sure you get off to the right start in the morning, is think back to when you did something ****y/funny to a chick or in any random situation to get your mindset right.

Random thoughts.

-LC
 
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Local Celebrity said:
For example, if she's in there brushing her hair again, do the same thing, but on purpose. Open the door, walk past her, go to the toilet, lift up the seat, pull your pants down to your ankles, then sit down, and look at her like "why are you watching me?"


-LC
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LOL!
 
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