"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Body language book

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Body language is something thats very underrated IMO. Deep down everybody knows it naturally but the conscious mind takes over and confuses thing. Women as we know are much better at reading body language then us men. I've recently downloaded an ebook called bodylanguageproject (recommended by KarmaSutra in another thread) and I was surprised at how good it was.

I had a book before on body language but it only had about 4 pages about attracting the opposite sex. This ebook is 90 pages long and it has 100's of pictures too and best of all it's all about attracting and reading women.

It teaches you what signs to look out for and more importantly teaches you attractive body language to attract women.

It's great for reading what people are thinking For example women will see a confident man instead of a nervous wreck by just changing 1 or 2 little things.

To sum up it's a good practicle read (a few hours) that will improve your game and you'll find it interesting observing people and yourself which is a skill you can develop.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Slaog is right on target on the excercises which is KEY to this .

I'm good at this ,since peripheal vision is necesary for you to vibe the girl thats already attracted to you and will welcome your approach.

Its like a sixth sense for me but its something you can learn by watching more and complement what you learn from a book.

There are body language vids out there.

Reading IOI's is golden when you are undescisive and cant seem what to do but ! this back fires when you are w a hired gun they are fake interest or interst in cash especially if you are dealing with exotic dancer or sales girl, they are paid to be nice and conversate.

so be careful with this.

read my post and you'll see wht Im talking about.

YOUR Body language is key to show dominance alpha and congruence every minimal movement counts on your part when she is opbserving and testing to see who you are.

A girl thats a friend , a personal trainer , doctor , chiropractor or even a physical therapist can help you if you have bad posture.
My perosnal trainer helped me since I was slaoching and had a hump back and would get upset and correct me and we go over excercises and sets of weight training to develop stronger muscles to support my back. It natural for me to walk and stand tall so this is a habit you must pick up fast.

Miroring her body language is something I always do in day game, this comes from hypnosis to build comfort and trust just by mirror her body language.

Awesome Topic and Nice post man!
 

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broken dreams said:
I'm good at this since peripheal vision is necesary for you to vibe the girl thats already attracted to you and will welcome your approach. but For you to learn or correct your own BL and to read them.

Its like a sixth sense for me but its something you can learn by watching more and complement what you learn from a book.

There are body language vids out there.

Reading IOI's is golden when you are undescisive and cant seem what to do but ! this back fires when you are w a hired gun they are fake interest or interst in cash especially if you are dealing with exotic dancer or sales girl, they are paid to be nice and conversate.

so be careful with this.

read my post and you'll see wht Im talking about.

YOUR Body language is key to show dominance alpha and congruence every minimal movement counts on your part when she is opbserving and testing to see who you are.

Slaog is right on target on the excercises which is KEY to this .


Miroring her body language is something I always do in day game, this comes from hypnosis to build comfort and trust just by mirror her body language.

Awesome Topic and Nice post man!
Thank you it's something thats underrated IMO and a skill anybody can learn and enjoy.

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erm ok... so whats the book called?
It's called the bodylanguageproject. I'm not able to use those p2p sites because of some port forwarding problem on my router. It cost only about 15 dollars.
 

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I think this book is even more important for novice DJ's because BL is an ******d expression of how you're feeling inside and if you're not feeling like a DJ it'll show but now you can fake it. Just by knowing the basics of BL it can improve your game in a matter of hours.

If you're having a conversation with a woman BL is vital to make the women feel comfortable and attracted to you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Pay the $15 you cheap bastards.

Chris put a lot of effort into this book and it's the best on the subject hands down.

Put it in perspective. You go out to a club and drop $15 for a couple of drinks for some broad who's going to end up taking the bouncer home and squatting on his face while you're still crying on each other's shoulders.

This is $15 well spent and you get a lifetime of knowledge to carry with you on the next trip to the club only this time you may be under her asscheeks smiling.

Here's my review of The Body Language Project:

My review is the last one:

Cheap fvcks.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Chris put a lot of effort into this book and it's the best on the subject hands down.

Put it in perspective. You go out to a club and drop $15 for a couple of drinks for some broad who's going to end up taking the bouncer home and squatting on his face while you're still crying on each other's shoulders.

This is $15 well spent and you get a lifetime of knowledge to carry with you on the next trip to the club only this time you may be under her asscheeks smiling.

Here's my review of The Body Language Project:

My review is the last one:

Cheap fvcks.
It's amazing that some won't pay $15 for valuable information but still complain about women not liking them. :crazy:

Thanks for the tip on the book. I knew a little bit about body language before but this has helped me improve further. :up:
 

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Alright, I'll toss in my $15. Review to follow after I've read it a half dozen times and followed through (in a month or so.)

I wish he'd have gone with paypal or something a bit more common for his payment system though.
 

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I've actually been looking for a book about body language under the seduction category. Most of the body language books are about body language in general. Good stuff I'll definitely be looking into it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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wow i dont have no 15 dollars man soembody post it stop bein a faggot...were all on here to learn so why not share the knowledge u idiots...got damn some of u people r really dumb...
 
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