Body Language and Subconscious Signals

[JustDoItAlways]

I've been in the "watching body language" game for a long time and, to be honest, it is just not reliable at all.

Some girls do all of these signs as part of their natural habits. Some will never exhibit any of these signs even when they are totally hot for you.

I think you can get a general feel from a girl if she "might" be interested in you and you can get a general feel that she doesn't want to have anything to do with you. Its an overall gut instinct thing.

But you can never really know if she's interested or not until she actually goes out with you and, especially, when she opens those legs for you. That's the only "poker tell" body language sign that I've seen that is actually reliable.

So, go with your gut, make the move and find out for sure.

 

[becker]

I definitely agree that there's gut feeling involved in this. Sometimes a girl just won't be interested in you at all, and it will be obvious. Other times, she will be interested but won't show it.

It depends on the girl and how expressive she is in general. You probably can't find a girl who is totally shy but expresses herself totally when it comes to showing interest.

 

[sAxyguy83]

My advice is use this as a guide on what to look for, but try to intentionally exhibit these signals yourself. If you display these signals, then you can keep the convo on whatever you want and still let her know loud and clear that you're interested. Since it acts on the subliminal level, she probably won't even be aware of what's going on unless she also knows this stuff, in which case it still won't hurt as long as you don't overdo it.

 

[suavedave]

books on body language

anyone know of good resources on the subject?

I've checked numerous books-- but they seem to be quite business related though with a few male/female elements.

 

[Willie Naylor]

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