salinechow
Senior Don Juan
I was mentioning earlier in another thread some body language and non-verbal communication techniques and thought it might be a good topic for its own thread.
I cannot think of a larger positive impact on my game then this has had.
I would like to share that with you guys. No, I would not say I am an expert but I am very, very, good at it. I bet you I can give some real good insight with some good tips and tricks. As well as decode for you things you might be noticing. Take a quick note ten come back and ask about it. This can be helpful in all areas of life not just with woman. Business especially. Poker too.
The first one is free: Folded Arms across the chest.
This is a common one. Everyone thinks that folding your arms across the chest is a sign of being closed off. And, because of such a widespread misnomer, you should probably avoid doing this in most situations. Yet, folding ones arms across the chest is not always indicative of being closed off or mad or whatever. Actually, especially for males, it’s quite a comfortable way to stand or sit. We do this also when we are inquisitive about something or interested (this is usually almost always with a slight tilt of the head). Actually people will also do this when they are just kind of cold.
So, when is it a sign of something negative. When the hands are gripping the arms then it becomes a more uncomfortable sign that that person is mad or closed off or insecure. When they are rubbing the arms with their hands. Same thing. (also typically almost always the head and neck are ridged and straight up and down. No head tilt.)
Girls do that more than guys. They wont “tuck” their hands underneath the folded arm they actually look more like they are hugging themselves. (The arms are over one another but not “crossed”. Try it, you’ll see the difference.) The rubbing is called pacifying behavior and is usually a sign she is uncomfortable with something. Also, from this position they will touch their neck or necklace if they become even more uncomfortable or worried about something. You have seen this before. If a girl tells a story about something bad that happened to her or a friend and whenever the story starts to hit on the real negative details they will usually pacify by touching the neck or collar bone or necklace.
You can even spot this when they don’t know what to order off a menu! HAHA, women!
Try it out. Tell a girl(sister, cousin, mother. Don’t try this at the bar with a girl you want to hook up with obviously) an awful story. When she hears the bad news she will cover her mouth and then the hand will move to the supra sternal notch( the indent were the two collar bones start) and if she is wearning a necklace she will start to play with it.
Hope to be of help. Id love to give back in anyway I can. PM are welcomed but try to keep it here for all to read and gain from.
I cannot think of a larger positive impact on my game then this has had.
I would like to share that with you guys. No, I would not say I am an expert but I am very, very, good at it. I bet you I can give some real good insight with some good tips and tricks. As well as decode for you things you might be noticing. Take a quick note ten come back and ask about it. This can be helpful in all areas of life not just with woman. Business especially. Poker too.
The first one is free: Folded Arms across the chest.
This is a common one. Everyone thinks that folding your arms across the chest is a sign of being closed off. And, because of such a widespread misnomer, you should probably avoid doing this in most situations. Yet, folding ones arms across the chest is not always indicative of being closed off or mad or whatever. Actually, especially for males, it’s quite a comfortable way to stand or sit. We do this also when we are inquisitive about something or interested (this is usually almost always with a slight tilt of the head). Actually people will also do this when they are just kind of cold.
So, when is it a sign of something negative. When the hands are gripping the arms then it becomes a more uncomfortable sign that that person is mad or closed off or insecure. When they are rubbing the arms with their hands. Same thing. (also typically almost always the head and neck are ridged and straight up and down. No head tilt.)
Girls do that more than guys. They wont “tuck” their hands underneath the folded arm they actually look more like they are hugging themselves. (The arms are over one another but not “crossed”. Try it, you’ll see the difference.) The rubbing is called pacifying behavior and is usually a sign she is uncomfortable with something. Also, from this position they will touch their neck or necklace if they become even more uncomfortable or worried about something. You have seen this before. If a girl tells a story about something bad that happened to her or a friend and whenever the story starts to hit on the real negative details they will usually pacify by touching the neck or collar bone or necklace.
You can even spot this when they don’t know what to order off a menu! HAHA, women!
Try it out. Tell a girl(sister, cousin, mother. Don’t try this at the bar with a girl you want to hook up with obviously) an awful story. When she hears the bad news she will cover her mouth and then the hand will move to the supra sternal notch( the indent were the two collar bones start) and if she is wearning a necklace she will start to play with it.
Hope to be of help. Id love to give back in anyway I can. PM are welcomed but try to keep it here for all to read and gain from.
