"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Body Language + add tips

NotaGoatLover

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You and I both know that body language is very important in being with a woman, her coming over to you, and going to the next level... but theres a few tips I have to get a woman (girl) to start talking to you...(especially if your in high-school)

IGNORE...... Don't give girls attention.....or that much and like you don't care she's there.... every guy is staring at her tits and ass and everything, making them basically saying "I want your hot sexy body and i want you to make me your slave".

But when you Ignore them you say "I don't care about your looks or who you are, i'm gonna treat you like any other person and your going to have to earn MY ATTENTION like every other person in this class"

So what I do is just talk to your male friends, or ugly female friends and ignore the pretty one.... Then she's gonna give you some cheap lil line like "Got paper" or "What class you going next"

You can also ask a very vague question about school or somethin to somebody, and make sure she hears it and she will most likely answer it. For ex: "When do we leave?"

You're IN!......then start being ****y and funny w/e bust on her...

If you have good tips on body language during class or just during school, Give them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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that means you DONT approach. which means you get nothing for 4 years. tested and prooven, dont try it
 

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look at nerds do they get laid i dont think so
 

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No.....you guys don't get it....... I'm talking about having confident posture and sitting down with your legs open w/e not Playing Pokemon with your gameboy..........

I'm not talking about not talking to girls at all during the hallways or w/e but during class....... Besides i've had my own success with this but w/e.... I just want some tips from you guys on body language....... not How nerds don't get laid (I know a few nerds that get laid plenty.....eat that)
 

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Yeah ... ignoring them doesn't work. Maybe if she's really into you and sees you giving lots of attention to another girl.

Something that I do sometimes that works like a charm is to make eye contact with a hottie across the room for a few seconds, then roll your eyes and slightly smile. It's hard to explain, but the face I make says "Great, she's checking me out again". Kind of like using C&F from a distance :p
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nice, Ima use that.
 

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.......Well let me put it like this...i've had success with girls by ignoring them...and them doing odd things for my attention.....

Talk to girls in your class....plenty of them and do C&F lines with them etc etc talk to your friends and show that your confident and your not sensitive to what people say but that your a fun guy...... when your talking to everybody else and ignoring her.... she's gonna be like "what the hell"......It's worked for me....and make sure you have your back to her.....if you can...and pertend like you never knew she was there....but You have to have Confident posture.............And make sure she's near you..... Doing this technique isnt great from afar...but if she's next to you or infront ...it's Excellent...
 

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thumbs up for this. do not give them TOO much attention. some is required at the basic stages; i.e. approach, number close, kiss, fvck, strapon play etc.

if you keep staring at them, it emits desperation, like you have nothing else going on in your life; no other prospects so you just think about women all day
 

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the trick is striking a balance between going for it and laying back and chilling out i.e.: approach while shes in a group and pretend like your there to talk to another one of the girls, then draw the attention to yourself, but not giving her any special attention. i mean thats what i do, and it works pretty well.
 

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Dont ignore her it give the idea that you dont like her and that you think your to good for her. Saying that dont stare at her or anything like that just act cool and if you catch her smiling at you just give a quick smile and get back to work.
When you see her out of class or anything and you both catch each other eyes give wink and walk past her, she will get your number some how or you will be told that she lieks you

Then make your move chicks love confidence. <== fullstop
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Optimus

When you see her out of class or anything and you both catch each other eyes give wink and walk past her, she will get your number some how or you will be told that she lieks you

Then make your move chicks love confidence. <== fullstop
I Have to practice my winking.... I know it shows you are confident. I look weird when i practice winking in the mirror
 

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Completely ignoring a girl will only make her lose interest and go on to the next guy. Going on to the next girl is something I've been told and they'll do the same to you. I should have pounced when my chance was the greatest.
 

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^^ You don't get it...............

If every1 else is having fun...... and she sees that...... She's gonna want to have fun too....... get me?.....
 
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when in class straight walk up behind her and see what she's doing and just whenever pinch her side or something.
 

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ya dude i know what you mean by ignoring, i've tried it

it generates initial attraction, but basically goes nowhere. she wants you because your having fun and ignoring her, so as soon as you stop ignoring her it collapses
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Body language is definitely extremely valuable in my book. I make it a point to never forget to read body language of a woman.

A good way to practice is to sit a few rows behind a guy and a girl you KNOW are an 'item', and look at how their body language is. Now glace at the body language of girls and guys who are sitting next to each other but are not 'involved'. Note the differences. That's a basic primer on body language. :D

I would suggest to read as much as you can regarding body language, because, unlike women, it DOES NOT LIE.

However, some girls (the teases) will use kino to insane levels to try to capture your attention - but this is noticeable.

And ignoring girls is really stupid.
 

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Originally posted by Luscious
Body language is definitely extremely valuable in my book. I make it a point to never forget to read body language of a woman.

A good way to practice is to sit a few rows behind a guy and a girl you KNOW are an 'item', and look at how their body language is. Now glace at the body language of girls and guys who are sitting next to each other but are not 'involved'. Note the differences. That's a basic primer on body language. :D

I would suggest to read as much as you can regarding body language, because, unlike women, it DOES NOT LIE.

However, some girls (the teases) will use kino to insane levels to try to capture your attention - but this is noticeable.

And ignoring girls is really stupid.
Ignoring..... I use for the initial approach....or to just tease a little....but don't ignore a girl completely! after talking to her or knowing for a bit.....If you ignore her ~COMPLETELY~..... she'll leave......Thats how me and my friend get girls that we don't like Away from us.....
 
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