"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Bodily Hair - Opinions.

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I'm looking into shaving bodily hair. It's a subject I'm not certain on whether I should do or not.

I keep a gotee on (well trimmed) and sideburns as I look young for my age without them and these make me look older. I'm wondering whether I should get rid of other bodily hair. I'm a bit undecided though. Hairy chests, for instance, look manly and I'm told many woman like them.

I'm told your c*ck looks even bigger when you shave your pubes.

Also if I didn't like it how long are they gonna take to grow back?

Also what should I use for the job? Good old fashioned razor? (I'd rather not lascerate my entire body - and I can think of at least one area that I definately don't want to cut)

I'm looking for other people's experiences, ideas, thoughts, opinions, advice etc.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ok arms i won't touch. Down in the pubic region maybe you could shave it thought first time I ever did that i got the biggest itch of my life down there. So i prefer trimming very short or hell leave it the way it is. Legs i wax as it makes them look better when tanned. And chest i won't touch unless it looked incredibly filthy.
 

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Reminds me of the Sinefield episode...

Don't you know you're not supposed to mess around down there?
I trim pubic and underarms.

If I had a hairy back I would look into doing something about that.

After that I would give a care what women want cos It varies so much.
 

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Cheers folks. I've herad opinions on both sides about it.
 

Le Parisien

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Some women like hairy chest, some others hate it and think it's gross.

I don't know if this comparison is good:
Just like girls with tatoos and piercings, personally I hate it, but I'm pretty sure some guys love it, so...
:)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Im a hairy italian. I shave my head, wear a goatee, shave down stairs, buzz my chest with a set of clippers and wax my back (or else it looks like a rug). I keep the chest hair nice and short. I used to wax it in the summer but Im beginning to say **** it since I havent had any beach time in the last few years.
If you want to keep the body hair then keep it short and neat.
 

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I shave my chest, mostly because I only have a little chest hair that looks retarded. I also shave/trim my pubes (leave some on top). I trim my stomach and armpits, otherwise I'd be able to braid that hair it gets so long :p . I don't touch my leg/forearm hair because it would look too weird and be too much of a hassle. I also tweeze the unibrow so it looks normal, and my nose hair occationally.

I use a regular razor in the shower for my pubes, the same electric razor as my face for my chest, and nail scissors for any trimming.

Sounds like a lot, but it only takes a couple extra minutes a day to maintain. Women have commented that they like my grooming.
 

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I tweese eyebrows a little bit, just started trimming my nose hair...

I have some chest hair, but I dont think will shave it....
 

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i shave my chest except for the line that runs directly between the pecs down to the happy trail, keep that all trimmed up. Trim up the pubes at least... keep it clean and short. For bodily grooming, get a beard trimmer, they work really well, and get stuff short enough that you can use a razor (electric or straight) for the finishing touches if you like.
 

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I don't know about the rest of you fellas but I damn sure don't want to go to the Dentist for a haircut. I show the same courtesy with the women I'm with and they certainly appreciate it.

I have one gf who gladly shaves my back and delts where I can't reach. I handle the rest.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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