"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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boardbreaking test of speed.

goundra

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the standard for minimum level of serious injury from a blow has long been the ability to break a 1" thick, 1 ft square pine board. That doesn't take all that much of a "pop", if it's administered with enough speed, and if you aren't truly fast, the guy will block or evade your blow, anyway!

however, such boards are very expensive, so some dude came up with a mortize and tenon sort of slip together joint synthetic board, that will demonstrate that it takes the same amount of power (as breaking the pine board) for over 1000 breaks. :)

One of the Korean black belt requirements is to toss up such a board in such a way as to have the "face" of the board towards you, and break it in midair with a forefist , then do it side ways, with "chop" and with the backfist , Also, simply drop the board, with it facing you, and break it in midair with a ball of the foot (tuck up your toes) barefoot front snapkick. VERY few US black belts can anything LIKE meet this standard of "focus", accuracy and speed. Which is one of the reasons that they are not worthy of the rank.

the first degree of the Black belt rank is SUPPOSED to mean:"untouchable by the untrained man". As my instructor, Moon Hyo Kun worded it:"Supposed to be, this karate, one time hit, one time KILL". :) For guys at HIS level (5th Dan) that is exactly what they can do.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My trainer did the board-breaking thing. He said that what makes a board break easily is a low moisture content. To make a student look good at a demonstration, an sensai could bake the boards in an oven the night before so that they break easily. He said his trainer was more inclined to give them boards that looked like they had been in a mud puddle.
 

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on this synthetic board, I doubt taht the moisture is going to matter at, al
 
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